"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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This kind of thing has been posted before, but as soon as it happened to me it became a good idea for me to come and warn you guys about it yet again.

I just knocked up my girlfriend. For some reason guys think it won't happen to them, they think those bad things wont happen to them, well... they do. If you have sex without a condom (even if its just foreplay, like i did), you WILL eventually knock her up, and it is a terrible thing. It is 10 times worse then you could ever imagine. Especially with a dad who trusted we werent having sex.

Even in foreplay you still *** a little bit, so DO NOT do it, always put a condom on no matter how strong the temptation. Also, make sure you use lubricant and a proper fitting condom so it doesnt break. So learn from my mistakes and the other unfortunate souls mistakes who have also experienced this.

Remember, you are NOT impervious to these circumstances. You are not invincible.

So from now on, i will wear sunscreen in the sun, and i will always use a condom.

P.S. For anyone that was interested, she did get the abortion of course but it was a horrible experience.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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im sorry
 
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that sucks lil dude.

While I agree with your advice, I gotta say I go raw doggy on all my LTRs (after they get tested of course) and have yet to have this happen. Then again, mebbe my sperms are terrible swimmers!

Anyway, sounds like you got a good head on ya shoulders. Keep it up!
 
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Sorry man but at least you learned a lesson
 
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Am i the only one that got the irony of your sig with this sammo, im sorry, but re read your sig and think of it laterally.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Don Ronny
While I agree with your advice, I gotta say I go raw doggy on all my LTRs (after they get tested of course) and have yet to have this happen. Then again, mebbe my sperms are terrible swimmers!
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Thats a gamble you might not want to take.

That sucks sammo, just outa curiosity, what do you feel about the abortion? like were you for it, or did you let her decide?
 
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Originally posted by Don Ronny
that sucks lil dude.

While I agree with your advice, I gotta say I go raw doggy on all my LTRs (after they get tested of course) and have yet to have this happen. Then again, mebbe my sperms are terrible swimmers!

Anyway, sounds like you got a good head on ya shoulders. Keep it up!
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Yeah thats what i thought as well, but then i did. Dont make the same mistake as me man.

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That sucks sammo, just outa curiosity, what do you feel about the abortion? like were you for it, or did you let her decide?
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I was definatelly for it. A kid at 16 is a good way of messing your life up. We had both agreed that she would go abortion if it ever did happen, so there wasn't any controversy between us.
 
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i will wear sunscreen in the sun,
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I'll never do that...causes cancer
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Yeah dude, I feel your pain. I had a pregnancy scare a few months ago, and it sucked hardcore. I've always hated condoms, but now I always wrap it up anyway because I remember that horrible experience.

-Dan
 
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I hear you Superman... in my case her period was a week late, and I was almost crying like a four year old... and we used a condom. Now, they are not the best creation on the planet... but I would be damned if I do it without one.

Sorry to hear about that Sammo... you guys may want to discuss getting her on the pill as well. Good luck man... keep your head up.
 
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Reminds me of a saying: Use a wrapper when you pack her.

Went bareback once with an ex...Was breathing into a paper bag for a few weeks after that. Not worth the trouble. Don't trust the pill 100% either, everything has error (except abstinence, but where's the fun in that? ;) )
 
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put this in the dj highschool bible moderators

sorry sammo, that sucks dude.
 
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yheh i recommend getting her on the pill AND using a rubber
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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