High frequency low volume.shaunuk said:Erm, so in your opinion, how should a bodybuilder's routine differ from the basic routines proposed here? Why would it possibly be different (serious question...)?
-shaun
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The words come later. The impression comes first.
High frequency low volume.shaunuk said:Erm, so in your opinion, how should a bodybuilder's routine differ from the basic routines proposed here? Why would it possibly be different (serious question...)?
-shaun
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Youre ASSUMING i meant high volume.EFFORT said:So take your average 165lb guy that wants to add size. His big 3 lifts are poor. You think the best way to size this guy up is to put him on a volume training (bodybuilding style) program where hes using wussy weight to do his sets with? ex max squat is 135lbs so he'll be doing rep work with around 60-80lbs (something like 4x8)
or to put that guy on a powerlifting style routine get his big lifts up to respectable numbers like i outline ex his max squat is 450 now(and he'll have size to match), so now we put him on that same bodybuilding style routine and hes using 250-270lbs for his rep work (something like 4x8)
assuming his eating is good for both methods which way do you think will work better?
Volume training is very effective but only if your using big numbers for your rep work. People get confused because they see the big bodybuilders doing there routines with high volume but miss the fact that the BB's have respectable numbers in the big 3.
Since you've been around the block your big 3 are up there so when your doing your volume training the weight your using for your rep work is giving you your success where as the average guy with sucky big 3's is using wuss weight for his rep work and won't have success.
Sure. You can adapt any kind of training routine/program for strength.EFFORT said:So you meant High Frequency, Low Volume? Sounds like a form of strength training.
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