"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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A two part Friendzone Question

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I have a question for anyone who can answer. I finally went out on a date with a girl that I have been friends for quite sometime. (Stuck in the Friendzone). Now I have been in relationships. Been on numerous dates . But I absolutely had the best time of my life with her Saturday. Now I thought there was definetly a connection.


My questions are:

Am I just feeling like this because I have been head over heels for her for a long time? And I felt chemistry between us. (Or do I need to refer to the head over heels part). She has told me on numerous occasions as well that she had a good time. Problem is I live in Chicago and she lives near Evansville, IN. About 400 miles apart. (Is this doomed??)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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As long as you are long distance its doomed.
 
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Loving someone is one way only. You probably blinded yourself from what it really is...besides, it's LD..and your totally obessing over her.

Find a new chick you!
 
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