"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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A two part Friendzone Question

leeman67

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I have a question for anyone who can answer. I finally went out on a date with a girl that I have been friends for quite sometime. (Stuck in the Friendzone). Now I have been in relationships. Been on numerous dates . But I absolutely had the best time of my life with her Saturday. Now I thought there was definetly a connection.


My questions are:

Am I just feeling like this because I have been head over heels for her for a long time? And I felt chemistry between us. (Or do I need to refer to the head over heels part). She has told me on numerous occasions as well that she had a good time. Problem is I live in Chicago and she lives near Evansville, IN. About 400 miles apart. (Is this doomed??)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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As long as you are long distance its doomed.
 

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Loving someone is one way only. You probably blinded yourself from what it really is...besides, it's LD..and your totally obessing over her.

Find a new chick you!
 
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