"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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A two part Friendzone Question

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I have a question for anyone who can answer. I finally went out on a date with a girl that I have been friends for quite sometime. (Stuck in the Friendzone). Now I have been in relationships. Been on numerous dates . But I absolutely had the best time of my life with her Saturday. Now I thought there was definetly a connection.


My questions are:

Am I just feeling like this because I have been head over heels for her for a long time? And I felt chemistry between us. (Or do I need to refer to the head over heels part). She has told me on numerous occasions as well that she had a good time. Problem is I live in Chicago and she lives near Evansville, IN. About 400 miles apart. (Is this doomed??)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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As long as you are long distance its doomed.
 
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Loving someone is one way only. You probably blinded yourself from what it really is...besides, it's LD..and your totally obessing over her.

Find a new chick you!
 
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