"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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A two part Friendzone Question

leeman67

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I have a question for anyone who can answer. I finally went out on a date with a girl that I have been friends for quite sometime. (Stuck in the Friendzone). Now I have been in relationships. Been on numerous dates . But I absolutely had the best time of my life with her Saturday. Now I thought there was definetly a connection.


My questions are:

Am I just feeling like this because I have been head over heels for her for a long time? And I felt chemistry between us. (Or do I need to refer to the head over heels part). She has told me on numerous occasions as well that she had a good time. Problem is I live in Chicago and she lives near Evansville, IN. About 400 miles apart. (Is this doomed??)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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As long as you are long distance its doomed.
 

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Loving someone is one way only. You probably blinded yourself from what it really is...besides, it's LD..and your totally obessing over her.

Find a new chick you!
 
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