"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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A Tip on posting

The Bartender

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When posting stuff here (mainly in the discussion area) and you are looking for advice on why you suck as a DJ for some reason, dont type a mile long saga story where interest is lost in less than 1 sentence.

In short...summarize. This goes for actual DJing too, not just virtual which reminds me of another tip. Get away from your computer.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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i never ask for advice, theres some people that will bring you down, thats how i became shy, but now im not shy which is good, i learnt a big lesson NEVER ask for advise, on THIS forum, i mean if you dont get put down easy go ahead, post, but i do.
 

The Bartender

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Originally posted by The-Sultan
i never ask for advice, theres some people that will bring you down, thats how i became shy, but now im not shy which is good, i learnt a big lesson NEVER ask for advise, on THIS forum, i mean if you dont get put down easy go ahead, post, but i do.
Not asking for advice because you dont like what ppl say is pretty AFC bro. I mean if you honestly dont need advice, the yeah no need to post. But dont hold in a question/situation just because you're getting some harsh advice. Constuctive critisism is helpful, unfortunately some ppl dont know how to construct it and some dont know how to see it.
 

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Originally posted by The-Sultan
i never ask for advice, theres some people that will bring you down, thats how i became shy, but now im not shy which is good, i learnt a big lesson NEVER ask for advise, on THIS forum, i mean if you dont get put down easy go ahead, post, but i do.
ask for advice, try the high school forum, they are nicer.

You might as well ask, dont get affected by RANDOM people over the internet.
 

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dont worry, i can do anything now, anyway i ask for advice on a much better forum
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by The Bartender
When posting stuff here (mainly in the discussion area) and you are looking for advice on why you suck as a DJ for some reason, dont type a mile long saga story where interest is lost in less than 1 sentence.

In short...summarize. This goes for actual DJing too, not just virtual which reminds me of another tip. Get away from your computer.
I think guys white essays because they have no idea what the fvck is the real problem so they list all of they symptoms in the form of a story. I'd give move advice if they would just ask the fvcking question because reading the entire story bores me to no end.
 

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Re: Re: A Tip on posting

Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
I think guys white essays because they have no idea what the fvck is the real problem so they list all of they symptoms in the form of a story. I'd give move advice if they would just ask the fvcking question because reading the entire story bores me to no end.
Cha Ru that!
 

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I'll admit to not reading the long posts :)

how ever, There is a lot of information that is missed (intentionally or not) when they post short stories. If you don't know the details, you can't be sure of the situation
 

The Bartender

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Originally posted by spider_007
I'll admit to not reading the long posts :)

how ever, There is a lot of information that is missed (intentionally or not) when they post short stories. If you don't know the details, you can't be sure of the situation
The point is...get to the details. If you type a damn story worth of details then you are in something way over your head.
 
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