"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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A Tip on posting

The Bartender

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When posting stuff here (mainly in the discussion area) and you are looking for advice on why you suck as a DJ for some reason, dont type a mile long saga story where interest is lost in less than 1 sentence.

In short...summarize. This goes for actual DJing too, not just virtual which reminds me of another tip. Get away from your computer.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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i never ask for advice, theres some people that will bring you down, thats how i became shy, but now im not shy which is good, i learnt a big lesson NEVER ask for advise, on THIS forum, i mean if you dont get put down easy go ahead, post, but i do.
 

The Bartender

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Originally posted by The-Sultan
i never ask for advice, theres some people that will bring you down, thats how i became shy, but now im not shy which is good, i learnt a big lesson NEVER ask for advise, on THIS forum, i mean if you dont get put down easy go ahead, post, but i do.
Not asking for advice because you dont like what ppl say is pretty AFC bro. I mean if you honestly dont need advice, the yeah no need to post. But dont hold in a question/situation just because you're getting some harsh advice. Constuctive critisism is helpful, unfortunately some ppl dont know how to construct it and some dont know how to see it.
 

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Originally posted by The-Sultan
i never ask for advice, theres some people that will bring you down, thats how i became shy, but now im not shy which is good, i learnt a big lesson NEVER ask for advise, on THIS forum, i mean if you dont get put down easy go ahead, post, but i do.
ask for advice, try the high school forum, they are nicer.

You might as well ask, dont get affected by RANDOM people over the internet.
 

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dont worry, i can do anything now, anyway i ask for advice on a much better forum
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by The Bartender
When posting stuff here (mainly in the discussion area) and you are looking for advice on why you suck as a DJ for some reason, dont type a mile long saga story where interest is lost in less than 1 sentence.

In short...summarize. This goes for actual DJing too, not just virtual which reminds me of another tip. Get away from your computer.
I think guys white essays because they have no idea what the fvck is the real problem so they list all of they symptoms in the form of a story. I'd give move advice if they would just ask the fvcking question because reading the entire story bores me to no end.
 

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Re: Re: A Tip on posting

Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
I think guys white essays because they have no idea what the fvck is the real problem so they list all of they symptoms in the form of a story. I'd give move advice if they would just ask the fvcking question because reading the entire story bores me to no end.
Cha Ru that!
 

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I'll admit to not reading the long posts :)

how ever, There is a lot of information that is missed (intentionally or not) when they post short stories. If you don't know the details, you can't be sure of the situation
 

The Bartender

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Originally posted by spider_007
I'll admit to not reading the long posts :)

how ever, There is a lot of information that is missed (intentionally or not) when they post short stories. If you don't know the details, you can't be sure of the situation
The point is...get to the details. If you type a damn story worth of details then you are in something way over your head.
 
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