"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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A Tip on posting

The Bartender

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When posting stuff here (mainly in the discussion area) and you are looking for advice on why you suck as a DJ for some reason, dont type a mile long saga story where interest is lost in less than 1 sentence.

In short...summarize. This goes for actual DJing too, not just virtual which reminds me of another tip. Get away from your computer.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The-Sultan

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i never ask for advice, theres some people that will bring you down, thats how i became shy, but now im not shy which is good, i learnt a big lesson NEVER ask for advise, on THIS forum, i mean if you dont get put down easy go ahead, post, but i do.
 

The Bartender

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Originally posted by The-Sultan
i never ask for advice, theres some people that will bring you down, thats how i became shy, but now im not shy which is good, i learnt a big lesson NEVER ask for advise, on THIS forum, i mean if you dont get put down easy go ahead, post, but i do.
Not asking for advice because you dont like what ppl say is pretty AFC bro. I mean if you honestly dont need advice, the yeah no need to post. But dont hold in a question/situation just because you're getting some harsh advice. Constuctive critisism is helpful, unfortunately some ppl dont know how to construct it and some dont know how to see it.
 

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Originally posted by The-Sultan
i never ask for advice, theres some people that will bring you down, thats how i became shy, but now im not shy which is good, i learnt a big lesson NEVER ask for advise, on THIS forum, i mean if you dont get put down easy go ahead, post, but i do.
ask for advice, try the high school forum, they are nicer.

You might as well ask, dont get affected by RANDOM people over the internet.
 

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dont worry, i can do anything now, anyway i ask for advice on a much better forum
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by The Bartender
When posting stuff here (mainly in the discussion area) and you are looking for advice on why you suck as a DJ for some reason, dont type a mile long saga story where interest is lost in less than 1 sentence.

In short...summarize. This goes for actual DJing too, not just virtual which reminds me of another tip. Get away from your computer.
I think guys white essays because they have no idea what the fvck is the real problem so they list all of they symptoms in the form of a story. I'd give move advice if they would just ask the fvcking question because reading the entire story bores me to no end.
 

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Re: Re: A Tip on posting

Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
I think guys white essays because they have no idea what the fvck is the real problem so they list all of they symptoms in the form of a story. I'd give move advice if they would just ask the fvcking question because reading the entire story bores me to no end.
Cha Ru that!
 

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I'll admit to not reading the long posts :)

how ever, There is a lot of information that is missed (intentionally or not) when they post short stories. If you don't know the details, you can't be sure of the situation
 

The Bartender

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Originally posted by spider_007
I'll admit to not reading the long posts :)

how ever, There is a lot of information that is missed (intentionally or not) when they post short stories. If you don't know the details, you can't be sure of the situation
The point is...get to the details. If you type a damn story worth of details then you are in something way over your head.
 
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