A thought/self observation about call back rules etc...

[kabatura]

I just noticed that now that I am much busier with school and other things when I read a post about when to call a girl back it seems so much clearer to me. The idea of calling 3 days later to make yourself not look desperate or like you have no life. I just wonder how much it is self validation. Proving less to her that you have a life, but more to yourself. Now that I am much busier thought like, she just texted me, I should wait a few minutes to not look like a loser, don't really exist. Why would I need to prove that to her, I know I'm not a loser..

You shouldn't be constantly doing things. It's ok to have lazy time, as long as it's at a healthy level. All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy.

 

[Interceptor]

That's why the best and more lasting way to defeating insecurity and building Self Esteem and genuine Self Confidence is to have a good, compellling, and fulfilling life.

Then you know your true worth and value yourself and your time, energy and resources.
And you naturally STOP WORRYING about every little thing.
Micro managing, anxiety, stress...insecurities?

they go away.

Approach Anxiety?

Thing of the past.

When to call?

Pfft. Get real.

What will she think of me?

Not really concerned really....






You are finally seeing the Basic Principle of living the DJ life.

This is good.

 

[Obsidian]

Excellent post, kabatura. The Pook is with you.