"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
A theoretical question...
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
I've often wondered what it would be like to have a sister but then I realize that I would probably have tried some stuff with her, so it's a good thing I don't have any sisters.
As for cousins. Whatever, in some states (hillbilly states) cousins have been known to marry.
Stuff like that can cause rifts in the family though.
Yes, but there is no real biological reason against it. There are only ethical barriers created by society for some reason. Not that I would ever agree with doing that it was just a question I could not come up with a logical answer to.Maxtro said:
I reckon you wouldn't even want to though. There's a genetic imperitive not to fuc'k your own sister. I personally, "just see her as a friend" as the HB would say about the AFC
.read my above post.Gubby said:Well you make up your own right or wrong don't you? But whether or not you think it is a GOOD IDEA is another thing... and seeing as blow jobs are so damn common I'd say it's worth avoiding all problems like that.
I reckon you wouldn't even want to though. There's a genetic imperitive not to fuc'k your own sister. I personally, "just see her as a friend" as the HB would say about the AFC
I'm not talking about fvcking her since she could get pregnant and most likely would get a disfigured baby because of incest. I'm talking about her giving you a bl0wjob.
I don't even have a sister or female cousin. It's just a theoretical question.
However it seems that nobody can give me a logical answer other than "you just don't do that!"
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
Mom: Billy Bob and Mary Ann! What are you two doin?
Billy Bob: We ain't done nuttin wrong Ma. We just doin anals.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:Maxtro said:
Alot of people on this site preach, "Fvck what other people think, do what you want."
So, theoretically, if you had a sister who wanted to give you a blow job, and you wanted to get it, then there is no problem.
Now, theoretically, if you and your sister were the last people on earth, would you let her blow you then? hmmm
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Bullsh*t. Hypothetical, theorhetical question my ass. This seems pretty serious to you. Youre looking for someone to tell you why you shouldnt do this, probably because youre about 5 seconds away from doing so. Here's why; because its the breaking of one of the most important social norms. Youre not suppose to have a SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP with someone in youre family. What if youre mom was hot and she wanted youre c*ck? I find it disturbing that you need someone to justify against this act that youre considering partaking in. Its not worth it man. There are millions of women in the world...find one that aint youre sister.ChrizZ said:
iqqi
Master Don Juan
This is different.iqqi said:
There is no logical reason other than the painful consequences that we would have to go through - both mentally and physically (jail). It's our instinct to avoid pain.
Furthermore it's our core beliefs that get fed to us since birth that prevent us from killing each other without any reason. These core beliefs shape our conscience and thus morals.
That's why we feel remorse, fear or shame (pain) if we do something that goes against society's norms.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
ChrizZ said:
What about the consequences to your sister? She'd become desensitized and unfeeling over sex acts, a recipe for becoming the town wh0re.
KontrollerX
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Thus this sort of thing is considered taboo.
That is the flimsy reasoning in a nutshell.
In Motion
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iqqi
Master Don Juan
That is why it is gross.
In Motion
Senior Don Juan
Exept you don't have a vagina. You have a hand.iqqi said:
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.