"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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A theoretical question...

ChrizZ

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Why would it be considered sick or a crime if your own sister or cousin gave you a blowj0b?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Incest man, their your blood and you shouldn't love them that way. ****** should be from ho's and ons and girls you have relationship with in a different context. Family is out, think of it like being with your moms.
 

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gtownjuan said:
Incest man, their your blood and you shouldn't love them that way. ****** should be from ho's and ons and girls you have relationship with in a different context. Family is out, think of it like being with your moms.
I know, but what is the reasoning behind this?

The girl can't get pregnant from it. Why is it labeled as bad? I want an objective answer...
 

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The reasoning behind it.

She cant get pregnant but its a blatant sex act! It putting sexual tension in a place it should not exist.
 

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gtownjuan said:
The reasoning behind it.

She cant get pregnant but its a blatant sex act! It putting sexual tension in a place it should not exist.
according to who?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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If the sister is a minor there can be serious legal problems. Oral might also lead to the full thing...

I've often wondered what it would be like to have a sister but then I realize that I would probably have tried some stuff with her, so it's a good thing I don't have any sisters.

As for cousins. Whatever, in some states (hillbilly states) cousins have been known to marry.

Stuff like that can cause rifts in the family though.
 

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Maxtro said:
If the sister is a minor there can be serious legal problems. Oral might also lead to the full thing...

I've often wondered what it would be like to have a sister but then I realize that I would probably have tried some stuff with her, so it's a good thing I don't have any sisters.

lol

As for cousins. Whatever, in some states (hillbilly states) cousins have been known to marry.

Stuff like that can cause rifts in the family though.
Yes, but there is no real biological reason against it. There are only ethical barriers created by society for some reason. Not that I would ever agree with doing that it was just a question I could not come up with a logical answer to.
 

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Well you make up your own right or wrong don't you? But whether or not you think it is a GOOD IDEA is another thing... and seeing as blow jobs are so damn common I'd say it's worth avoiding all problems like that.

I reckon you wouldn't even want to though. There's a genetic imperitive not to fuc'k your own sister. I personally, "just see her as a friend" as the HB would say about the AFC ;).
 

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Gubby said:
Well you make up your own right or wrong don't you? But whether or not you think it is a GOOD IDEA is another thing... and seeing as blow jobs are so damn common I'd say it's worth avoiding all problems like that.

I reckon you wouldn't even want to though. There's a genetic imperitive not to fuc'k your own sister. I personally, "just see her as a friend" as the HB would say about the AFC ;).
read my above post.

I'm not talking about fvcking her since she could get pregnant and most likely would get a disfigured baby because of incest. I'm talking about her giving you a bl0wjob.

I don't even have a sister or female cousin. It's just a theoretical question.

However it seems that nobody can give me a logical answer other than "you just don't do that!"
 

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You are correct in that there is no biological reason against oral. I don't think that nature considers oral to be sex. Heck I don't think anal is considered sex by nature.

Mom: Billy Bob and Mary Ann! What are you two doin?
Billy Bob: We ain't done nuttin wrong Ma. We just doin anals.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Maxtro said:
Mom: Billy Bob and Mary Ann! What are you two doin?
Billy Bob: We ain't done nuttin wrong Ma. We just doin anals.
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

Alot of people on this site preach, "Fvck what other people think, do what you want."

So, theoretically, if you had a sister who wanted to give you a blow job, and you wanted to get it, then there is no problem.

Now, theoretically, if you and your sister were the last people on earth, would you let her blow you then? hmmm
 

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ChrizZ said:
read my above post.

I'm not talking about fvcking her since she could get pregnant and most likely would get a disfigured baby because of incest. I'm talking about her giving you a bl0wjob.

I don't even have a sister or female cousin. It's just a theoretical question.

However it seems that nobody can give me a logical answer other than "you just don't do that!"
Bullsh*t. Hypothetical, theorhetical question my ass. This seems pretty serious to you. Youre looking for someone to tell you why you shouldnt do this, probably because youre about 5 seconds away from doing so. Here's why; because its the breaking of one of the most important social norms. Youre not suppose to have a SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP with someone in youre family. What if youre mom was hot and she wanted youre c*ck? I find it disturbing that you need someone to justify against this act that youre considering partaking in. Its not worth it man. There are millions of women in the world...find one that aint youre sister.
 

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oakraiderz2 said:
Bullsh*t. Hypothetical, theorhetical question my ass. This seems pretty serious to you. Youre looking for someone to tell you why you shouldnt do this, probably because youre about 5 seconds away from doing so. Here's why; because its the breaking of one of the most important social norms. Youre not suppose to have a SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP with someone in youre family. What if youre mom was hot and she wanted youre c*ck? I find it disturbing that you need someone to justify against this act that youre considering partaking in. Its not worth it man. There are millions of women in the world...find one that aint youre sister.
ahahaha.

As I said earlier I don't have a sister. I don't have trouble getting women either.

Fact is that there simply is no logical answer to my question.
 

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iqqi said:
What is the logical reason why you should not kill a man?
This is different.

There is no logical reason other than the painful consequences that we would have to go through - both mentally and physically (jail). It's our instinct to avoid pain.

Furthermore it's our core beliefs that get fed to us since birth that prevent us from killing each other without any reason. These core beliefs shape our conscience and thus morals.

That's why we feel remorse, fear or shame (pain) if we do something that goes against society's norms.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ChrizZ said:
There is no logical reason other than the painful consequences that we would have to go through - both mentally and physically

What about the consequences to your sister? She'd become desensitized and unfeeling over sex acts, a recipe for becoming the town wh0re.
 

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Religious bullsh!t pretty much.

Thus this sort of thing is considered taboo.

That is the flimsy reasoning in a nutshell.
 

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I guess the only thing is the ethical and moral issue, someone with no standards would go for it but 99 % of people find it just WRONG. But I must admit that Im glad I don't have a sister because, im sorry, it would be tempting. (I guess, I wouldnt really know though)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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