"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
A theoretical question...
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
I've often wondered what it would be like to have a sister but then I realize that I would probably have tried some stuff with her, so it's a good thing I don't have any sisters.
As for cousins. Whatever, in some states (hillbilly states) cousins have been known to marry.
Stuff like that can cause rifts in the family though.
Yes, but there is no real biological reason against it. There are only ethical barriers created by society for some reason. Not that I would ever agree with doing that it was just a question I could not come up with a logical answer to.Maxtro said:
I reckon you wouldn't even want to though. There's a genetic imperitive not to fuc'k your own sister. I personally, "just see her as a friend" as the HB would say about the AFC
.read my above post.Gubby said:Well you make up your own right or wrong don't you? But whether or not you think it is a GOOD IDEA is another thing... and seeing as blow jobs are so damn common I'd say it's worth avoiding all problems like that.
I reckon you wouldn't even want to though. There's a genetic imperitive not to fuc'k your own sister. I personally, "just see her as a friend" as the HB would say about the AFC
I'm not talking about fvcking her since she could get pregnant and most likely would get a disfigured baby because of incest. I'm talking about her giving you a bl0wjob.
I don't even have a sister or female cousin. It's just a theoretical question.
However it seems that nobody can give me a logical answer other than "you just don't do that!"
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
Mom: Billy Bob and Mary Ann! What are you two doin?
Billy Bob: We ain't done nuttin wrong Ma. We just doin anals.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:Maxtro said:
Alot of people on this site preach, "Fvck what other people think, do what you want."
So, theoretically, if you had a sister who wanted to give you a blow job, and you wanted to get it, then there is no problem.
Now, theoretically, if you and your sister were the last people on earth, would you let her blow you then? hmmm
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Bullsh*t. Hypothetical, theorhetical question my ass. This seems pretty serious to you. Youre looking for someone to tell you why you shouldnt do this, probably because youre about 5 seconds away from doing so. Here's why; because its the breaking of one of the most important social norms. Youre not suppose to have a SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP with someone in youre family. What if youre mom was hot and she wanted youre c*ck? I find it disturbing that you need someone to justify against this act that youre considering partaking in. Its not worth it man. There are millions of women in the world...find one that aint youre sister.ChrizZ said:
iqqi
Master Don Juan
This is different.iqqi said:
There is no logical reason other than the painful consequences that we would have to go through - both mentally and physically (jail). It's our instinct to avoid pain.
Furthermore it's our core beliefs that get fed to us since birth that prevent us from killing each other without any reason. These core beliefs shape our conscience and thus morals.
That's why we feel remorse, fear or shame (pain) if we do something that goes against society's norms.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
ChrizZ said:
What about the consequences to your sister? She'd become desensitized and unfeeling over sex acts, a recipe for becoming the town wh0re.
KontrollerX
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Thus this sort of thing is considered taboo.
That is the flimsy reasoning in a nutshell.
In Motion
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iqqi
Master Don Juan
That is why it is gross.
In Motion
Senior Don Juan
Exept you don't have a vagina. You have a hand.iqqi said:
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.