"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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A testament to eye contact, what next?

Wanttogetbetter

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Sup guys/gals, this is my first post in a great place with some great ideas and discussions!

Anyway I found myself in a particularly intense situation while I was catching the bus home from school recently. I was on the bus and I noticed this girl giving me the eye, so naturally I gave her some good ol' eye contact back, which resulted in her swinging her head away ridiculously fast lol. So I now knew this hottie was checking me out, (let the games begin!) During the rest of the ride before my stop, our eyes met multiple times and always ended with her looking away first, followed by her initiating the eye contact again. The eye contact sessions were getting progressively longer to the point where she would be looking into my eyes and activating primal urges within my body lol (of course I was wearing sweat pants :D) Anyway eventually I hit my stop and gave her a big grin as I exited from the bus.

Ok i know I should have initiated some conversation, but in my defense she was in the front of the bus and I was in the back, and I was oblivious to her presence until the bus started moving. I defineatly need to interact with this girl, and in all likelihood I'm probably going to see her on the bus again. Now do any of you guys have tips for gaming chicks on a bus? It seems like a weird setting to me personally, maybe this notion is unjustifiably in my head? Have you had successes meeting women on the bus? I was thinking that if were getting off at the uni at the same time, I could introduce myself and we could talk and walk and get to know each other.

Better ideas, suggestions and constructive criticism all accepted !
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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619joe

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How about if you see her again

"OH NO.Its you again.....".Say it like your irritated at first then smile.Should be the PERFECT line Im telling you this straight up.

Then follow it up with small talk like what are you up to/where you going,etc..
 

Vice

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619joe said:
How about if you see her again

"OH NO.Its you again.....".Say it like your irritated at first then smile.Should be the PERFECT line Im telling you this straight up.

Then follow it up with small talk like what are you up to/where you going,etc..
That's really good.

I'm going to use that when I need to.

Thanks
 

Wanttogetbetter

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Yah defineately think some ****y shiznat is in order here...... i would love to get her laughing and just act all comfortable and shiz with her then go for some coffee grab her number etc etc. THnaks for the replies boyzes!
 

NoMoreTapDancing

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Ask her why she keeps staring at you and tell her that it's freaking you out.
Tell her if she want to keep looking at me you'll need at least a phone number as downpayment.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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thedeparted

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I've met women on the bus. One thing to do is if there is an opening, go sit next to her, just before you get off (the bus, perv ;-0). That's when you can get her info.
 

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All in all, you should have had the confidence to have walked to her in the first place!
Never give up an opertunity due to excuses=fear!
 
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