"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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A testament to eye contact, what next?

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Sup guys/gals, this is my first post in a great place with some great ideas and discussions!

Anyway I found myself in a particularly intense situation while I was catching the bus home from school recently. I was on the bus and I noticed this girl giving me the eye, so naturally I gave her some good ol' eye contact back, which resulted in her swinging her head away ridiculously fast lol. So I now knew this hottie was checking me out, (let the games begin!) During the rest of the ride before my stop, our eyes met multiple times and always ended with her looking away first, followed by her initiating the eye contact again. The eye contact sessions were getting progressively longer to the point where she would be looking into my eyes and activating primal urges within my body lol (of course I was wearing sweat pants :D) Anyway eventually I hit my stop and gave her a big grin as I exited from the bus.

Ok i know I should have initiated some conversation, but in my defense she was in the front of the bus and I was in the back, and I was oblivious to her presence until the bus started moving. I defineatly need to interact with this girl, and in all likelihood I'm probably going to see her on the bus again. Now do any of you guys have tips for gaming chicks on a bus? It seems like a weird setting to me personally, maybe this notion is unjustifiably in my head? Have you had successes meeting women on the bus? I was thinking that if were getting off at the uni at the same time, I could introduce myself and we could talk and walk and get to know each other.

Better ideas, suggestions and constructive criticism all accepted !
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How about if you see her again

"OH NO.Its you again.....".Say it like your irritated at first then smile.Should be the PERFECT line Im telling you this straight up.

Then follow it up with small talk like what are you up to/where you going,etc..
 
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619joe said:
How about if you see her again

"OH NO.Its you again.....".Say it like your irritated at first then smile.Should be the PERFECT line Im telling you this straight up.

Then follow it up with small talk like what are you up to/where you going,etc..
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That's really good.

I'm going to use that when I need to.

Thanks
 
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Yah defineately think some ****y shiznat is in order here...... i would love to get her laughing and just act all comfortable and shiz with her then go for some coffee grab her number etc etc. THnaks for the replies boyzes!
 
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Ask her why she keeps staring at you and tell her that it's freaking you out.
Tell her if she want to keep looking at me you'll need at least a phone number as downpayment.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I've met women on the bus. One thing to do is if there is an opening, go sit next to her, just before you get off (the bus, perv ;-0). That's when you can get her info.
 
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All in all, you should have had the confidence to have walked to her in the first place!
Never give up an opertunity due to excuses=fear!
 
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