"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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A testament to eye contact, what next?

Wanttogetbetter

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Sup guys/gals, this is my first post in a great place with some great ideas and discussions!

Anyway I found myself in a particularly intense situation while I was catching the bus home from school recently. I was on the bus and I noticed this girl giving me the eye, so naturally I gave her some good ol' eye contact back, which resulted in her swinging her head away ridiculously fast lol. So I now knew this hottie was checking me out, (let the games begin!) During the rest of the ride before my stop, our eyes met multiple times and always ended with her looking away first, followed by her initiating the eye contact again. The eye contact sessions were getting progressively longer to the point where she would be looking into my eyes and activating primal urges within my body lol (of course I was wearing sweat pants :D) Anyway eventually I hit my stop and gave her a big grin as I exited from the bus.

Ok i know I should have initiated some conversation, but in my defense she was in the front of the bus and I was in the back, and I was oblivious to her presence until the bus started moving. I defineatly need to interact with this girl, and in all likelihood I'm probably going to see her on the bus again. Now do any of you guys have tips for gaming chicks on a bus? It seems like a weird setting to me personally, maybe this notion is unjustifiably in my head? Have you had successes meeting women on the bus? I was thinking that if were getting off at the uni at the same time, I could introduce myself and we could talk and walk and get to know each other.

Better ideas, suggestions and constructive criticism all accepted !
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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619joe

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How about if you see her again

"OH NO.Its you again.....".Say it like your irritated at first then smile.Should be the PERFECT line Im telling you this straight up.

Then follow it up with small talk like what are you up to/where you going,etc..
 

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619joe said:
How about if you see her again

"OH NO.Its you again.....".Say it like your irritated at first then smile.Should be the PERFECT line Im telling you this straight up.

Then follow it up with small talk like what are you up to/where you going,etc..
That's really good.

I'm going to use that when I need to.

Thanks
 

Wanttogetbetter

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Yah defineately think some ****y shiznat is in order here...... i would love to get her laughing and just act all comfortable and shiz with her then go for some coffee grab her number etc etc. THnaks for the replies boyzes!
 

NoMoreTapDancing

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Ask her why she keeps staring at you and tell her that it's freaking you out.
Tell her if she want to keep looking at me you'll need at least a phone number as downpayment.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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thedeparted

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I've met women on the bus. One thing to do is if there is an opening, go sit next to her, just before you get off (the bus, perv ;-0). That's when you can get her info.
 

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All in all, you should have had the confidence to have walked to her in the first place!
Never give up an opertunity due to excuses=fear!
 
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