"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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""you make me feel that i'm worthy thanks for being mine" =) mwahmwah HONEY"

this is one one of my friend's friendster shoutout to her girlfriend...i don't know if i'm over analyzing things but do you guys think this type of comment is a NO NO?!?!?!...can you make a prediction of what can happen in a relationship with a guy like this?!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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vagrant said:
""you make me feel that i'm worthy thanks for being mine" =) mwahmwah HONEY"

this is one one of my friend's friendster shoutout to her girlfriend...i don't know if i'm over analyzing things but do you guys think this type of comment is a NO NO?!?!?!...can you make a prediction of what can happen in a relationship with a guy like this?!
wow I just threwup in my mouth.... She should be thanking him.
 

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Paintballguy said:
wow I just threwup in my mouth.... She should be thanking him.
haha...wait what?...why should she thank him?...huh?!?!
 

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vagrant said:
haha...wait what?...why should she thank him?...huh?!?!
I think he's trying to say the guy is a girly man and the girl seems to have the balls in the relationship. These roles should be reversed
 

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kanaka said:
I think he's trying to say the guy is a girly man and the girl seems to have the balls in the relationship. These roles should be reversed
exactly... a girl should be thanking a guy just to be able to spend time with him. IE, you want the girl to be on your nuts.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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kanaka said:
I think he's trying to say the guy is a girly man and the girl seems to have the balls in the relationship. These roles should be reversed
I find more relationships are like that now a days. Something I was once guilty of.
Maybe a reflection of our feminized society?
 
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