"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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""you make me feel that i'm worthy thanks for being mine" =) mwahmwah HONEY"

this is one one of my friend's friendster shoutout to her girlfriend...i don't know if i'm over analyzing things but do you guys think this type of comment is a NO NO?!?!?!...can you make a prediction of what can happen in a relationship with a guy like this?!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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vagrant said:
""you make me feel that i'm worthy thanks for being mine" =) mwahmwah HONEY"

this is one one of my friend's friendster shoutout to her girlfriend...i don't know if i'm over analyzing things but do you guys think this type of comment is a NO NO?!?!?!...can you make a prediction of what can happen in a relationship with a guy like this?!
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wow I just threwup in my mouth.... She should be thanking him.
 
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Paintballguy said:
wow I just threwup in my mouth.... She should be thanking him.
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haha...wait what?...why should she thank him?...huh?!?!
 
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vagrant said:
haha...wait what?...why should she thank him?...huh?!?!
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I think he's trying to say the guy is a girly man and the girl seems to have the balls in the relationship. These roles should be reversed
 
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I think he's trying to say the guy is a girly man and the girl seems to have the balls in the relationship. These roles should be reversed
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exactly... a girl should be thanking a guy just to be able to spend time with him. IE, you want the girl to be on your nuts.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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kanaka said:
I think he's trying to say the guy is a girly man and the girl seems to have the balls in the relationship. These roles should be reversed
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I find more relationships are like that now a days. Something I was once guilty of.
Maybe a reflection of our feminized society?
 
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