“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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A tale of subtle rejection!

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1. new girl at my job for 4 weeks so far we click and talk alot and get along every very well

2. we been to lunch together 4 times.. i asked her 2 times she asked me two times..

3. we have long convos all the time bout everything.. but im not pushing anything at all just being cool and friendly

4. So i told her we should hang out outside work she said cool... so i suggested d last sat but she had a wedding to go to so she countered with this week! So i tuesday i said let get drinks after work and she said she was busy but thursday (today) is cool...lol

5. so today goes by normal and i say so we on for tonight and she acts like she almost forgot.. then starts saying she is tired.. then she asks where we going and tries to chose the place... im like i have a cool spot.. then she says what time cause she wants to take a nap but might not wake up..lol so we agree on 9pm so im like of i will pick you up... she says no i can just meet you there...lol

6. so ok fast for ward to 8:24pm at which time she texts me this great flake out - "Would u mind terribly if we reschedule for next week?I locked myself
out of the house like a genius and had to find a way to break back in.
Now my mood is just plain foul."...

This is so funny cause i was laying in bed before she texted me thinking to myself that this is a situation where i need to have the strength to flake on her before she flakes o me but she beat me to it... lololol

7. so all the red flags were there and plain to see.. when you see those signs you know what is coming..
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hey there.

IMO, having lunch isn't something to be happy about. Lunch time during working hours is even worst (she has no company besides you, since she's new).
Dinner is always preferable.

But somehow it is good that she requested for lunch with you, showing that she really isn't that uninterested. But girls are girls.

Long convos at working hours or after?

Tell you what. On the next meeting (if there is any), go get a movie with her. Just you and her! Try to hold her hands while watching, but not too desperately, and not for too long.

Good luck! And know that her actions mean alot too!
 
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you are so right cause lunch during work is casual but the dinner is what has meaning.... so that is the one she won't do... all the signs of bs were there I just desided to play along... I knew she was Oma flake out she is 31 years old but acting like she is 18.. oh well
 
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you are so right cause lunch during work is casual but the dinner is what has meaning.... so that is the one she won't do... all the signs of bs were there I just desided to play along... I knew she was Oma flake out she is 31 years old but acting like she is 18.. oh well
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Don't be so disappointed yet.. Try the movie. Grab the hand.

If she likes it, you'll know. (doesn't pull away)
If she doesn't like it, you'll know. (pulls violently away. LOL)
 
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Zarky,

One fvcking fine day you will know why.
As we move out of college/high school (in still schooling btw), the opportunities for hanging out with people (social) will be lesser and lesser.

Occasionally we still hang out with old friends, then we're in the friend-zone. Then we figured. Damn! Now i've only my colleauges at work to hang out with. Not everyone has as many "friends" as you dude.
 
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DonGorgon said:
you are so right cause lunch during work is casual but the dinner is what has meaning.... so that is the one she won't do... all the signs of bs were there I just desided to play along... I knew she was Oma flake out she is 31 years old but acting like she is 18.. oh well
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I don't think she really did anything out of the ordinary. Most women don't have the guts to tell a guy a straight no or not interested. She's just trying to spare your feelings as well as her feelings.

Don't be persistent with this one, you work with her and risk harrassment if you do so. Next.
 
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FutureSpartan said:
I don't think she really did anything out of the ordinary. Most women don't have the guts to tell a guy a straight no or not interested. She's just trying to spare your feelings as well as her feelings.

Don't be persistent with this one, you work with her and risk harrassment if you do so. Next.
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um i have never been forward or tried anything at all we have been mutually cool.. i have made no advances at all.. im not gona act silly cause i really just wanted to hang with her more to get to know her better if she doesnt want to thats kool.. i never harass women i dont even chase them...lol
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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