"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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A survey of females on what they think is " cool".

Don Corleone

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Hey fellow DJ's, I was sitting in english class this morning, falling asleep as usual when something caught my attention.

My professor(this is at a university), said that she wanted everyone to give characteristics of what they think is "cool".

I noticed something VERY interesting.

When the students started giving her characteristics of cool people, the guys and girls had different answers.

Now keep in mind that there are about 5 HB8.5's in this class, all sorority chicks.

*The ladies in the class all gave the same 5 responses: CONFIDENT, CHARASMATIC, LAID BACK, COMFORTABLE, AND MUSCULAR.

*The guys in this class all gave the same responses: Good clothes, accessories, hats, jewelry, hair cut.

So what does this mean? It proves the point that every DJ on this board keeps saying. Women all feel the same. It only matters how you carry yourself and how you act.

Every guy in this class had the misconception that you need to be rich or have good accessories.

MY POINT: This silly little excersize goes to show that women don't care about materialistic things(usuallly). Work on each of those five characteristics and once you master them, you will be able to pull hot chicks.

EVERY GUY ON THIS WEBSITE CAN OBTAIN EACH ONE OF THESE CHARACTERISTICS, HIT THE GYM, READ THE DJ BIBLE, GO TO SOCIAL EVENTS, READ BOOKS ON SPEAKING, DO WHATEVER IT TAKES!!!!!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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girls do like men with materalist thinks and money, it is not for the money it is because money gives you power so a person with money is powerfull, people listen to him, and this is like being an alpha male.

good post by the way. its very reashoring.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
girls do like men with materalist thinks and money, it is not for the money it is because money gives you power so a person with money is powerfull, people listen to him, and this is like being an alpha male.

good post by the way. its very reashoring.
Nah, not quite. A person with money may have a powerful persona however it's the personality that attracts women (whether they realize it or not). It is that confident, in control demeanor that attracts women and you don't need buckets of money to have it.
 

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There is a difference between what women say or think what they want and what they actually REACT to in real life.
 

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True!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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where is pook when you need him

what would pook say? I can't speak for him but I think he would say to forget about the money and focus on improving yourself. Money is only part of the equation but it does not define who you are. It is those personality characteristics that will draw a woman towards you. Confidence, ****iness, charisma. Work on developing these so that a she will be drawn to you.
 

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Muscular?? hah.

that was just a spur of the moment, saying what came to mind.
most girls dont require their men to be muscular. it's all about confidence and carrying yourself like you own the place.
probably what they meant was "being bigger than them" or taller in other words.
 

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Sure...you don't need to be rich/have a car to be considered cool. But I don't know if being 'cool' will get you girls. I know lots of ppl who girls would say are cool, but they don't have a girlfriend or anything like that. You have to be cool, as well as a lot of other traits to be sucessful.
 

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Originally posted by ScrewIt
Muscular?? hah.

that was just a spur of the moment, saying what came to mind.
most girls dont require their men to be muscular. it's all about confidence and carrying yourself like you own the place.
probably what they meant was "being bigger than them" or taller in other words.
That's pure bull****. Look at the more attracitve girls, in general they go for tall and muscular men. Women are as visual as we are. Would you go for a girl that look like a house just because she had confidence, no way!
 

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Sounds interesting. I do indeed believe that expressing confidence in yourself wins lots of points with people in general, but with girls in particular.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by Lifeforce
That's pure bull****. Look at the more attracitve girls, in general they go for tall and muscular men. Women are as visual as we are. Would you go for a girl that look like a house just because she had confidence, no way!
Agreed.

Let's keep in mind that DJ techinques and principles are for ATTRACTIVE women!
 
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