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A survey of females on what they think is " cool".

Don Corleone

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Hey fellow DJ's, I was sitting in english class this morning, falling asleep as usual when something caught my attention.

My professor(this is at a university), said that she wanted everyone to give characteristics of what they think is "cool".

I noticed something VERY interesting.

When the students started giving her characteristics of cool people, the guys and girls had different answers.

Now keep in mind that there are about 5 HB8.5's in this class, all sorority chicks.

*The ladies in the class all gave the same 5 responses: CONFIDENT, CHARASMATIC, LAID BACK, COMFORTABLE, AND MUSCULAR.

*The guys in this class all gave the same responses: Good clothes, accessories, hats, jewelry, hair cut.

So what does this mean? It proves the point that every DJ on this board keeps saying. Women all feel the same. It only matters how you carry yourself and how you act.

Every guy in this class had the misconception that you need to be rich or have good accessories.

MY POINT: This silly little excersize goes to show that women don't care about materialistic things(usuallly). Work on each of those five characteristics and once you master them, you will be able to pull hot chicks.

EVERY GUY ON THIS WEBSITE CAN OBTAIN EACH ONE OF THESE CHARACTERISTICS, HIT THE GYM, READ THE DJ BIBLE, GO TO SOCIAL EVENTS, READ BOOKS ON SPEAKING, DO WHATEVER IT TAKES!!!!!
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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girls do like men with materalist thinks and money, it is not for the money it is because money gives you power so a person with money is powerfull, people listen to him, and this is like being an alpha male.

good post by the way. its very reashoring.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
girls do like men with materalist thinks and money, it is not for the money it is because money gives you power so a person with money is powerfull, people listen to him, and this is like being an alpha male.

good post by the way. its very reashoring.
Nah, not quite. A person with money may have a powerful persona however it's the personality that attracts women (whether they realize it or not). It is that confident, in control demeanor that attracts women and you don't need buckets of money to have it.
 

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There is a difference between what women say or think what they want and what they actually REACT to in real life.
 

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True!
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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where is pook when you need him

what would pook say? I can't speak for him but I think he would say to forget about the money and focus on improving yourself. Money is only part of the equation but it does not define who you are. It is those personality characteristics that will draw a woman towards you. Confidence, ****iness, charisma. Work on developing these so that a she will be drawn to you.
 

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Muscular?? hah.

that was just a spur of the moment, saying what came to mind.
most girls dont require their men to be muscular. it's all about confidence and carrying yourself like you own the place.
probably what they meant was "being bigger than them" or taller in other words.
 

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Sure...you don't need to be rich/have a car to be considered cool. But I don't know if being 'cool' will get you girls. I know lots of ppl who girls would say are cool, but they don't have a girlfriend or anything like that. You have to be cool, as well as a lot of other traits to be sucessful.
 

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Originally posted by ScrewIt
Muscular?? hah.

that was just a spur of the moment, saying what came to mind.
most girls dont require their men to be muscular. it's all about confidence and carrying yourself like you own the place.
probably what they meant was "being bigger than them" or taller in other words.
That's pure bull****. Look at the more attracitve girls, in general they go for tall and muscular men. Women are as visual as we are. Would you go for a girl that look like a house just because she had confidence, no way!
 

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Sounds interesting. I do indeed believe that expressing confidence in yourself wins lots of points with people in general, but with girls in particular.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Originally posted by Lifeforce
That's pure bull****. Look at the more attracitve girls, in general they go for tall and muscular men. Women are as visual as we are. Would you go for a girl that look like a house just because she had confidence, no way!
Agreed.

Let's keep in mind that DJ techinques and principles are for ATTRACTIVE women!
 
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