"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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A survey of females on what they think is " cool".

Don Corleone

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Hey fellow DJ's, I was sitting in english class this morning, falling asleep as usual when something caught my attention.

My professor(this is at a university), said that she wanted everyone to give characteristics of what they think is "cool".

I noticed something VERY interesting.

When the students started giving her characteristics of cool people, the guys and girls had different answers.

Now keep in mind that there are about 5 HB8.5's in this class, all sorority chicks.

*The ladies in the class all gave the same 5 responses: CONFIDENT, CHARASMATIC, LAID BACK, COMFORTABLE, AND MUSCULAR.

*The guys in this class all gave the same responses: Good clothes, accessories, hats, jewelry, hair cut.

So what does this mean? It proves the point that every DJ on this board keeps saying. Women all feel the same. It only matters how you carry yourself and how you act.

Every guy in this class had the misconception that you need to be rich or have good accessories.

MY POINT: This silly little excersize goes to show that women don't care about materialistic things(usuallly). Work on each of those five characteristics and once you master them, you will be able to pull hot chicks.

EVERY GUY ON THIS WEBSITE CAN OBTAIN EACH ONE OF THESE CHARACTERISTICS, HIT THE GYM, READ THE DJ BIBLE, GO TO SOCIAL EVENTS, READ BOOKS ON SPEAKING, DO WHATEVER IT TAKES!!!!!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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girls do like men with materalist thinks and money, it is not for the money it is because money gives you power so a person with money is powerfull, people listen to him, and this is like being an alpha male.

good post by the way. its very reashoring.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
girls do like men with materalist thinks and money, it is not for the money it is because money gives you power so a person with money is powerfull, people listen to him, and this is like being an alpha male.

good post by the way. its very reashoring.
Nah, not quite. A person with money may have a powerful persona however it's the personality that attracts women (whether they realize it or not). It is that confident, in control demeanor that attracts women and you don't need buckets of money to have it.
 

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There is a difference between what women say or think what they want and what they actually REACT to in real life.
 

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True!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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where is pook when you need him

what would pook say? I can't speak for him but I think he would say to forget about the money and focus on improving yourself. Money is only part of the equation but it does not define who you are. It is those personality characteristics that will draw a woman towards you. Confidence, ****iness, charisma. Work on developing these so that a she will be drawn to you.
 

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Muscular?? hah.

that was just a spur of the moment, saying what came to mind.
most girls dont require their men to be muscular. it's all about confidence and carrying yourself like you own the place.
probably what they meant was "being bigger than them" or taller in other words.
 

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Sure...you don't need to be rich/have a car to be considered cool. But I don't know if being 'cool' will get you girls. I know lots of ppl who girls would say are cool, but they don't have a girlfriend or anything like that. You have to be cool, as well as a lot of other traits to be sucessful.
 

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Originally posted by ScrewIt
Muscular?? hah.

that was just a spur of the moment, saying what came to mind.
most girls dont require their men to be muscular. it's all about confidence and carrying yourself like you own the place.
probably what they meant was "being bigger than them" or taller in other words.
That's pure bull****. Look at the more attracitve girls, in general they go for tall and muscular men. Women are as visual as we are. Would you go for a girl that look like a house just because she had confidence, no way!
 

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Sounds interesting. I do indeed believe that expressing confidence in yourself wins lots of points with people in general, but with girls in particular.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by Lifeforce
That's pure bull****. Look at the more attracitve girls, in general they go for tall and muscular men. Women are as visual as we are. Would you go for a girl that look like a house just because she had confidence, no way!
Agreed.

Let's keep in mind that DJ techinques and principles are for ATTRACTIVE women!
 
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