ShortyBrown
Master Don Juan
Could you guys make a sticky of hot places to go out (and not so hot) you could take thoughts from members from around the world....it'd save some time and hassle.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
a suggestion for the wingman forum
- Thread starter ShortyBrown
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
ShortyBrown
Master Don Juan
Well ya don't have to take it as gospel dude, merely recommendations I've got this thought out, I'll get back with the details later.
I've got this thought out, I'll get back with the details later.One on One
Master Don Juan
I think she's talking about bars and clubs and such in these cities and not which cities are the best themselves....sounds like a good idea to me.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
ShortyBrown
Master Don Juan
OK here we goes:
-Take a poll of where the most DJ's are situated in major cities around the globe
-Categorise each city by continent(as opposed to a huge list of cities), then sub-categorise each city.
-Get a list going of clubs, pubs, general nightspots, give them a rating, what type of crowd to expect there, is booze cheap(hee hee ), covercharge, transport.
-Get one or two people from each continent to oversee it all.
-Take a poll of where the most DJ's are situated in major cities around the globe
-Categorise each city by continent(as opposed to a huge list of cities), then sub-categorise each city.
-Get a list going of clubs, pubs, general nightspots, give them a rating, what type of crowd to expect there, is booze cheap(hee hee
), covercharge, transport. -Get one or two people from each continent to oversee it all.
*Reads* Sounds interesting.Originally posted by ShortyBrown
OK here we goes:
-Take a poll of where the most DJ's are situated in major cities around the globe
-Categorise each city by continent(as opposed to a huge list of cities), then sub-categorise each city.
-Get a list going of clubs, pubs, general nightspots, give them a rating, what type of crowd to expect there, is booze cheap(hee hee
-Get one or two people from each continent to oversee it all.