"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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a suggestion for the wingman forum

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Could you guys make a sticky of hot places to go out (and not so hot) you could take thoughts from members from around the world....it'd save some time and hassle.

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The only problem is, there could be some disagreeing. Some people could say that Hawaii is great, while someone living in Hawaii might not like it.
 

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Well ya don't have to take it as gospel dude, merely recommendations :D I've got this thought out, I'll get back with the details later.
 

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Originally posted by ShortyBrown
Well ya don't have to take it as gospel dude, merely recommendations :D I've got this thought out, I'll get back with the details later.
Should be interesting to read. :cool:
 

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I think she's talking about bars and clubs and such in these cities and not which cities are the best themselves....sounds like a good idea to me.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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OK here we goes:

-Take a poll of where the most DJ's are situated in major cities around the globe
-Categorise each city by continent(as opposed to a huge list of cities), then sub-categorise each city.
-Get a list going of clubs, pubs, general nightspots, give them a rating, what type of crowd to expect there, is booze cheap(hee hee;) ), covercharge, transport.
-Get one or two people from each continent to oversee it all.

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Originally posted by ShortyBrown
OK here we goes:

-Take a poll of where the most DJ's are situated in major cities around the globe
-Categorise each city by continent(as opposed to a huge list of cities), then sub-categorise each city.
-Get a list going of clubs, pubs, general nightspots, give them a rating, what type of crowd to expect there, is booze cheap(hee hee;) ), covercharge, transport.
-Get one or two people from each continent to oversee it all.

:D
*Reads* Sounds interesting.
 
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