You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
But you know you won't say no if any of these exes txt'd you one night and said 'why don't you come over let me give you a BJ' usually when they're thinking about dumping the current guy or pissed at him bout something or just feeling extra adventurous etc.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Manage your time energy and attention keeping it just beyond her reach. Have fun with your life.
So theyll give the bj but not puzzy? Did you know some prostitutes are bj only? Its due to soul ties. So im a firm believer that you must achieve presense in the vaginal cavity. Head is a side dish.
You have kids already right. May I ask what the point of being in a 'relationship' like this is?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Not if I was in a committed relationship with someone I respected.
Thinking about this, I don't get it. Why would you end something in the first place, if you still want to keep being with them? I guess it just doesn't make sense to me.
Right but what if this woman you're in a committed relationship with does (or has the ability to do) what I posted above? I'm sure you'll feel insecure.
Relationships don't workout for tons of reasons. Could be logistics, being in different places in life and wanting different things. Not every break up is due to infidelity or something wrong. And those are the exes I keep in touch with.
I'm pretty sure women do it one to have easy backup options (easy because there's already history, nothing is forbidden under the right circumstances) two as the moose-heads hanging in a hunter's cabin lol and lastly to have people that validate them. Women are obsessed with getting attention, and their need to be constantly validated to make them feel secure.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Oh no, they'll do everything. That was just an example. I've had my ex send me a very descriptive account of what she liked with me and then saying 'I'm jumping in the shower now, should I leave the door unlocked for you?'.
What does the whole "only has guy things" mean in regards to a womens nature?
Arent hoez "one of the guys". They do things how they do it because they view things from a masculine viewpoint. So it makes them feel bigger and badder to have a few guys or to mess with a group?
Yeah totally, it's the masculine mindset these hoes have.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
This is a bad sign lefty. A woman worth a relationship would automatically cut of, or heavily distance herself from orbiters out of respect for you. In my opinion it's like she's keeping her options over or a back up plan. Its triangulation to some degree. My ex kind if had a guy friend she knew for a long time, and he would text her sometimes. I brought it up to her and i think she basically went nc because he wasn't that important to her.
So theyll definately fvck a few friend circles or have a rotation. Without fail.
Its a bully tactic.
Like a power grab? Can you elaborate on what you mean by bully tactic?
Bullys force you to put up with shyt and take from you. Either that or give very little for what your giving. What do you do about it?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
