But you know you won't say no if any of these exes txt'd you one night and said 'why don't you come over let me give you a BJ' usually when they're thinking about dumping the current guy or pissed at him bout something or just feeling extra adventurous etc.I don't know man. I talk to quite a few of my exes. Mostly because we share opinions on stuff and they serve as good outlets. If my gf was doing the same it would bother me but I wouldn't be able to say much since I'm doing the same. And should she have a problem with me talking to my exes, I'd tell her she needs to get over it and stop being so insecure about our relationship.
That's the problem.