"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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A strange turn of events.

FortunateSon

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I'm no looker, I'm 22 and I still have my V-plates attached, so you would think that I would just sleep with anything that comes my way.

Well it just happens that I am not interested in sex, or women and no I am not a homo because I don't find men attractive, I just genuinely have no interest in all that stuff. I don't masturbate, I don't watch/look at pornography. Instead I spend a lot of time exercising and going to the gym as that makes me happy.

Recently I have found myself attracting several women and these women range in mixture, different heights, body shapes, hair colours, personalities etc, but I always seem to reject these women and show no interest in them whatsoever and to be honest it feels good. I am used to getting to rejected and seeing as I know no longer care about scoring women or having sex, it makes rejection seem quite fun. I probably have a mental illness of some kind, but I get a buzz of slapping down a woman who gives me the green light proceed.

Is anyone else in this boat? Are you attracting women, only to slap a rejection on them?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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kentgraham10

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This semester at college things must have been coming full circle because now I get a lot more interest from woman. Most of them range in attractiveness but I would say there were none higher than a HB7 that showed interest in me out of the blue. Getting a lot of uglies mixed in as well (no fats, they must see the look of utter disgust in my face, no offense). I don't get the jollies from rejecting these women, just gives me some perspective of the girls that reject me. From what I read, the reasons I am attracting these woman and maybe the same goes for you too is that you give off a vibe that is considered friendly and approachable. Am I going to change that? No because I do get interest from the occasional hb7 this way by doing nothing outweighs what I have to put up with from the fat, the ugly, and yes, the smelly (seriously how can a woman let herself walk about with BO? And think she has a chance with ME??)

So to answer your question, yes I am attracting woman and yes so far I have just been slapping rejection back at them for one reason or another.
 

RockaRolla25

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FortunateSon said:
I'm no looker, I'm 22 and I still have my V-plates attached, so you would think that I would just sleep with anything that comes my way.

Well it just happens that I am not interested in sex, or women and no I am not a homo because I don't find men attractive, I just genuinely have no interest in all that stuff. I don't masturbate, I don't watch/look at pornography. Instead I spend a lot of time exercising and going to the gym as that makes me happy.

Recently I have found myself attracting several women and these women range in mixture, different heights, body shapes, hair colours, personalities etc, but I always seem to reject these women and show no interest in them whatsoever and to be honest it feels good. I am used to getting to rejected and seeing as I know no longer care about scoring women or having sex, it makes rejection seem quite fun. I probably have a mental illness of some kind, but I get a buzz of slapping down a woman who gives me the green light proceed.

Is anyone else in this boat? Are you attracting women, only to slap a rejection on them?
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/David_Jay
 

Rikudo

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I think you have the sheldon coper syndrome or better your asexual.joke!!JUst sleap with them.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Szyzzlin

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Is there was a naked girl in front of you, you wouldn't sex? you're a virgin for life man
 

dementia

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it doesnt make me feel good cos i already feel good about myself.. but i will say I never go 'down' on the hotness scale.. so i do end up rejecting more these days.
 
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