"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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FortunateSon

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I'm no looker, I'm 22 and I still have my V-plates attached, so you would think that I would just sleep with anything that comes my way.

Well it just happens that I am not interested in sex, or women and no I am not a homo because I don't find men attractive, I just genuinely have no interest in all that stuff. I don't masturbate, I don't watch/look at pornography. Instead I spend a lot of time exercising and going to the gym as that makes me happy.

Recently I have found myself attracting several women and these women range in mixture, different heights, body shapes, hair colours, personalities etc, but I always seem to reject these women and show no interest in them whatsoever and to be honest it feels good. I am used to getting to rejected and seeing as I know no longer care about scoring women or having sex, it makes rejection seem quite fun. I probably have a mental illness of some kind, but I get a buzz of slapping down a woman who gives me the green light proceed.

Is anyone else in this boat? Are you attracting women, only to slap a rejection on them?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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kentgraham10

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This semester at college things must have been coming full circle because now I get a lot more interest from woman. Most of them range in attractiveness but I would say there were none higher than a HB7 that showed interest in me out of the blue. Getting a lot of uglies mixed in as well (no fats, they must see the look of utter disgust in my face, no offense). I don't get the jollies from rejecting these women, just gives me some perspective of the girls that reject me. From what I read, the reasons I am attracting these woman and maybe the same goes for you too is that you give off a vibe that is considered friendly and approachable. Am I going to change that? No because I do get interest from the occasional hb7 this way by doing nothing outweighs what I have to put up with from the fat, the ugly, and yes, the smelly (seriously how can a woman let herself walk about with BO? And think she has a chance with ME??)

So to answer your question, yes I am attracting woman and yes so far I have just been slapping rejection back at them for one reason or another.
 

RockaRolla25

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FortunateSon said:
I'm no looker, I'm 22 and I still have my V-plates attached, so you would think that I would just sleep with anything that comes my way.

Well it just happens that I am not interested in sex, or women and no I am not a homo because I don't find men attractive, I just genuinely have no interest in all that stuff. I don't masturbate, I don't watch/look at pornography. Instead I spend a lot of time exercising and going to the gym as that makes me happy.

Recently I have found myself attracting several women and these women range in mixture, different heights, body shapes, hair colours, personalities etc, but I always seem to reject these women and show no interest in them whatsoever and to be honest it feels good. I am used to getting to rejected and seeing as I know no longer care about scoring women or having sex, it makes rejection seem quite fun. I probably have a mental illness of some kind, but I get a buzz of slapping down a woman who gives me the green light proceed.

Is anyone else in this boat? Are you attracting women, only to slap a rejection on them?
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/David_Jay
 

Rikudo

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I think you have the sheldon coper syndrome or better your asexual.joke!!JUst sleap with them.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Szyzzlin

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Is there was a naked girl in front of you, you wouldn't sex? you're a virgin for life man
 

dementia

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it doesnt make me feel good cos i already feel good about myself.. but i will say I never go 'down' on the hotness scale.. so i do end up rejecting more these days.
 
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