Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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A strange turn of events.

FortunateSon

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I'm no looker, I'm 22 and I still have my V-plates attached, so you would think that I would just sleep with anything that comes my way.

Well it just happens that I am not interested in sex, or women and no I am not a homo because I don't find men attractive, I just genuinely have no interest in all that stuff. I don't masturbate, I don't watch/look at pornography. Instead I spend a lot of time exercising and going to the gym as that makes me happy.

Recently I have found myself attracting several women and these women range in mixture, different heights, body shapes, hair colours, personalities etc, but I always seem to reject these women and show no interest in them whatsoever and to be honest it feels good. I am used to getting to rejected and seeing as I know no longer care about scoring women or having sex, it makes rejection seem quite fun. I probably have a mental illness of some kind, but I get a buzz of slapping down a woman who gives me the green light proceed.

Is anyone else in this boat? Are you attracting women, only to slap a rejection on them?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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kentgraham10

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This semester at college things must have been coming full circle because now I get a lot more interest from woman. Most of them range in attractiveness but I would say there were none higher than a HB7 that showed interest in me out of the blue. Getting a lot of uglies mixed in as well (no fats, they must see the look of utter disgust in my face, no offense). I don't get the jollies from rejecting these women, just gives me some perspective of the girls that reject me. From what I read, the reasons I am attracting these woman and maybe the same goes for you too is that you give off a vibe that is considered friendly and approachable. Am I going to change that? No because I do get interest from the occasional hb7 this way by doing nothing outweighs what I have to put up with from the fat, the ugly, and yes, the smelly (seriously how can a woman let herself walk about with BO? And think she has a chance with ME??)

So to answer your question, yes I am attracting woman and yes so far I have just been slapping rejection back at them for one reason or another.
 

RockaRolla25

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FortunateSon said:
I'm no looker, I'm 22 and I still have my V-plates attached, so you would think that I would just sleep with anything that comes my way.

Well it just happens that I am not interested in sex, or women and no I am not a homo because I don't find men attractive, I just genuinely have no interest in all that stuff. I don't masturbate, I don't watch/look at pornography. Instead I spend a lot of time exercising and going to the gym as that makes me happy.

Recently I have found myself attracting several women and these women range in mixture, different heights, body shapes, hair colours, personalities etc, but I always seem to reject these women and show no interest in them whatsoever and to be honest it feels good. I am used to getting to rejected and seeing as I know no longer care about scoring women or having sex, it makes rejection seem quite fun. I probably have a mental illness of some kind, but I get a buzz of slapping down a woman who gives me the green light proceed.

Is anyone else in this boat? Are you attracting women, only to slap a rejection on them?
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/David_Jay
 

Rikudo

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I think you have the sheldon coper syndrome or better your asexual.joke!!JUst sleap with them.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Szyzzlin

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Is there was a naked girl in front of you, you wouldn't sex? you're a virgin for life man
 

dementia

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it doesnt make me feel good cos i already feel good about myself.. but i will say I never go 'down' on the hotness scale.. so i do end up rejecting more these days.
 
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