"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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A sort of...Approach Journal

Eiljwa

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I have decided to start an Approach Journal. I will write in it everyday, if possible, and tell you what went on at school for the day. I may have nothing to report the first couple of days, but with some support, I'll be able to come up with some good stories and experiences. I figure it will be easier for me to do something, when I have someone to report to. Any help, advice, or (constructive) criticism is welcome.

Thanks and I'll keep you posted,
Eiljwa
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I started this journal on Tuesday and missed a day which was uneventful. Today was pretty boring also, except for one interesting thing happened. During the 3rd period of the day I recieved a small slip of paper telling me I have been nominated for prom royalty...I thought that was interesting. I checked it out with all my friends and apparently there is quite a conspiracy behind it(orchestrated by them of course). Correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't it a good thing to at least be nominated? And here I was thinking that the work was over after I had asked a girl to the dance (a lot of people on the board seem to be having trouble with that part of it). Oh well...
 

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it could be a good thing for you, unless its a bit of a joke. our school rarely gets a serious person to win homecoming or winter court. last year the homecoming king had to weigh at least 350lbs! the band is the cause of all of it tho, so idk if the situation is similar or different at your school.
 

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I know for sure it is at least partly a joke, I am pretty short for a senior (5'4") and they claimed they are going to vote for the tallest girl. But these are my friends and it's not meant for them to laugh at me, they nominated my date too, but I'm sure it's much harder for a girl to get in the running. Yeah, and it's usually not a big joke at my school, either.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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