"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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A sort of...Approach Journal

Eiljwa

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I have decided to start an Approach Journal. I will write in it everyday, if possible, and tell you what went on at school for the day. I may have nothing to report the first couple of days, but with some support, I'll be able to come up with some good stories and experiences. I figure it will be easier for me to do something, when I have someone to report to. Any help, advice, or (constructive) criticism is welcome.

Thanks and I'll keep you posted,
Eiljwa
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Eiljwa

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I started this journal on Tuesday and missed a day which was uneventful. Today was pretty boring also, except for one interesting thing happened. During the 3rd period of the day I recieved a small slip of paper telling me I have been nominated for prom royalty...I thought that was interesting. I checked it out with all my friends and apparently there is quite a conspiracy behind it(orchestrated by them of course). Correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't it a good thing to at least be nominated? And here I was thinking that the work was over after I had asked a girl to the dance (a lot of people on the board seem to be having trouble with that part of it). Oh well...
 

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it could be a good thing for you, unless its a bit of a joke. our school rarely gets a serious person to win homecoming or winter court. last year the homecoming king had to weigh at least 350lbs! the band is the cause of all of it tho, so idk if the situation is similar or different at your school.
 

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I know for sure it is at least partly a joke, I am pretty short for a senior (5'4") and they claimed they are going to vote for the tallest girl. But these are my friends and it's not meant for them to laugh at me, they nominated my date too, but I'm sure it's much harder for a girl to get in the running. Yeah, and it's usually not a big joke at my school, either.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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