"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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a slight dilemna

jfighter27

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Well I am in a very awkward situation right now. There was a 14 y/o girl that had a crush on me, I wasnt really that into her, but I considered dating her, mainly because she is almost four years younger than me, and also because my best friend was strongly persuading me not to. Well my best friend at the time was in a relationship of two years. Just recently they broke up, and strangely enough it is because my friend, who happens to be 18, had the hots for the girl who used like me. I was a little pissed obviously, seeing as how my friend was a complete hypocrite. Im over that now, because I realized that i didnt really like the girl much anyways.

Now my problem is that I really like my friends ex. Im a little unsure of how to go about this, seeing as how they dated for 2yrs and i dont know what the waiting period typically is. Know I konw its never a good idea to go after a girl like this, who just got dumped, but I really like her, and more than just a crush. Ive been talking to her alot lately, and since they broke up, I have told her how I felt about her. Apperantly she likes me too, buttt she is really not in a good mental state right now.. so im really not sure what to do at this point, if she wasnt that important to me then I would move on. but i really think there is more to it.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Damian

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Move on. If this girl gets more involved in your life, it will only lead to bad things. Your friend probably broke up with her for a reason. Plus, she's goddamn 14 years old. Find somebody your own age.

-Damian
 
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