"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I was with this one woman who was let's say LESS THAN HYGIENIC. I was getting an aroma before she ever took her pants off. This ***** was literally collecting fruit flies.
Be careful, some women really don't know "how to was their ass right"
penkitten
Master Don Juan
penkitten
Master Don Juan
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
1)get off the bed, and walk to the window
2)open the window and jump out, hopefully on your way down you catch some fresh air
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
Thinking back to it, I should have been a good soldier, kept my mouth shut and done my duty. Then at least I wouldnt have had to deal with a totally emotionally-crushed-self-esteem-at-zero-prosent ho.
Satori
Don Juan
Douse yourself in gasoline and set yourself on fire first. And don't bother opening the window, just launch yourself through it screaming.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Alpine
Master Don Juan
Although it's more common than you think and it doesn't mean they are 'dirty' as such.
Tell her you are just nipping down the shops and get the store to deliver some live yoghurt.
Brings a new meaning to the word pvssy.
So pimp its scary
Master Don Juan
I was with this girl that everything was all good, then sometimes I'd get with her and after ****ing the stench was through the entire room... Eventually I couldn't handle that, among other things, and broke up with her, but the smell is ALWAYS different.
Before going down, use your fingers while kissing her, after you 'dipped' get your hand behind her back and bring it up to your nose so you can get a preview of what's to come..
This way you can decide upfront wheather or not you wanna go down there at all..