I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I was with this one woman who was let's say LESS THAN HYGIENIC. I was getting an aroma before she ever took her pants off. This ***** was literally collecting fruit flies.Originally posted by Tazman
I know a guy that happened to. He said he was on his way down there and................came right back up (you get the picture). He said he still fvcked her though.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
My God.......Did you continue with her or did you make an excuse to leave before doing anything else?I was with this one woman who was let's say LESS THAN HYGIENIC. I was getting an aroma before she ever took her pants off. This ***** was literally collecting fruit flies.
Douse yourself in gasoline and set yourself on fire first. And don't bother opening the window, just launch yourself through it screaming.This is what you do;
1)get off the bed, and walk to the window
2)open the window and jump out, hopefully on your way down you catch some fresh air
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I always thought it was grab a breast and start licking her nipple, so you're nose is right near your finger.Originally posted by Caveman
Just a tip for anyone planning on going down on a girl (read this tip right here on the forum but I can't remember who posted it so sorry I can't give credit)
Before going down, use your fingers while kissing her, after you 'dipped' get your hand behind her back and bring it up to your nose so you can get a preview of what's to come..
This way you can decide upfront wheather or not you wanna go down there at all..