"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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A sh*t test - thoughts?

Genesis5

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Hey dudes,

Been a while since I've been in the game. Ended it with my LTR - chatting with this chick who we've been pretty hot and heavy before.. but got this sh*t test and wanted to get your thoughts:

Her: Gonna go workout at the gym.
Me: Good, get used to working up a sweat.
Her: Lol. Not sure anything can beat [her gym]

I know it's a sh*t test, just looking for some clever responses
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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marmel75

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Hey dudes,

Been a while since I've been in the game. Ended it with my LTR - chatting with this chick who we've been pretty hot and heavy before.. but got this sh*t test and wanted to get your thoughts:

Her: Gonna go workout at the gym.
Me: Good, get used to working up a sweat.
Her: Lol. Not sure anything can beat [her gym]

I know it's a sh*t test, just looking for some clever responses
Uhh, a sh!t test? More like a not interested test
 

GoodOne123

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It looks like you guys have just been chatting back and fourth, no official dates if I'm not mistaken.

I personally would have gone on a date, see how she would react to my advances, and gauged her interest from there. That way you won't be reading into her text messages and trying to decipher them, you'd just know if she's worth your time.

If you guys are not that close, she might have been shocked by your comment, hence her distant response.

If you guys are feeling eachother, and she is just being cheeky, then just be bold and confident. Say something like "you couldn't be more wrong, I'll make you forget about that gym in no time".

The last possibility is that she just might not be feeling you, and she just likes the attention.
 

Genesis5

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It looks like you guys have just been chatting back and fourth, no official dates if I'm not mistaken.

I personally would have gone on a date, see how she would react to my advances, and gauged her interest from there. That way you won't be reading into her text messages and trying to decipher them, you'd just know if she's worth your time.

If you guys are not that close, she might have been shocked by your comment, hence her distant response.

If you guys are feeling eachother, and she is just being cheeky, then just be bold and confident. Say something like "you couldn't be more wrong, I'll make you forget about that gym in no time".

The last possibility is that she just might not be feeling you, and she just likes the attention.
She's texted me how she's going to bang me and that she misses me yesterday. So, I'm probbaly just reading too much into it (oneitis, AFC **** because its been a while) We have a date planned for Tuesday. My text game is not as strong as my in person game, so I think my strategy here would be just to ignore it, contact her on tuesday to make sure i'm not gonna get flaked on & proceed.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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RangerMIke

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I never have advice for texting except just don't unless you are only trying to set a date. You really can gauge what's going on with a women over text... Jesus Christ.... face to face women are hard to read, much less deciphering text. Ask a woman out, how she responds will tell you EVERYHING you need to know about how she feels about you.
 

GoodOne123

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She's texted me how she's going to bang me and that she misses me yesterday. So, I'm probbaly just reading too much into it (oneitis, AFC **** because its been a while) We have a date planned for Tuesday. My text game is not as strong as my in person game, so I think my strategy here would be just to ignore it, contact her on tuesday to make sure i'm not gonna get flaked on & proceed.
Great that's perfect. You are probably just a bit nervous since you're back in the dating game after a long time. Don't need to put too much pressure on yourself, it's just girl numero uno, and it might work out and it might not. I guess all you have to do on Tuesday is just be relaxed, have good conversation, have rapport, and take her home if she's feeling it.
 

MrWiggles

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just have fun with it and youll be alright and i dont mean where you have fun for her approval either. Just go and do/say things that are fun to you and you wont feel any pressure at all
 
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