"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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A sh*t test - thoughts?

Genesis5

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Hey dudes,

Been a while since I've been in the game. Ended it with my LTR - chatting with this chick who we've been pretty hot and heavy before.. but got this sh*t test and wanted to get your thoughts:

Her: Gonna go workout at the gym.
Me: Good, get used to working up a sweat.
Her: Lol. Not sure anything can beat [her gym]

I know it's a sh*t test, just looking for some clever responses
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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marmel75

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Hey dudes,

Been a while since I've been in the game. Ended it with my LTR - chatting with this chick who we've been pretty hot and heavy before.. but got this sh*t test and wanted to get your thoughts:

Her: Gonna go workout at the gym.
Me: Good, get used to working up a sweat.
Her: Lol. Not sure anything can beat [her gym]

I know it's a sh*t test, just looking for some clever responses
Uhh, a sh!t test? More like a not interested test
 

GoodOne123

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It looks like you guys have just been chatting back and fourth, no official dates if I'm not mistaken.

I personally would have gone on a date, see how she would react to my advances, and gauged her interest from there. That way you won't be reading into her text messages and trying to decipher them, you'd just know if she's worth your time.

If you guys are not that close, she might have been shocked by your comment, hence her distant response.

If you guys are feeling eachother, and she is just being cheeky, then just be bold and confident. Say something like "you couldn't be more wrong, I'll make you forget about that gym in no time".

The last possibility is that she just might not be feeling you, and she just likes the attention.
 

Genesis5

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It looks like you guys have just been chatting back and fourth, no official dates if I'm not mistaken.

I personally would have gone on a date, see how she would react to my advances, and gauged her interest from there. That way you won't be reading into her text messages and trying to decipher them, you'd just know if she's worth your time.

If you guys are not that close, she might have been shocked by your comment, hence her distant response.

If you guys are feeling eachother, and she is just being cheeky, then just be bold and confident. Say something like "you couldn't be more wrong, I'll make you forget about that gym in no time".

The last possibility is that she just might not be feeling you, and she just likes the attention.
She's texted me how she's going to bang me and that she misses me yesterday. So, I'm probbaly just reading too much into it (oneitis, AFC **** because its been a while) We have a date planned for Tuesday. My text game is not as strong as my in person game, so I think my strategy here would be just to ignore it, contact her on tuesday to make sure i'm not gonna get flaked on & proceed.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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RangerMIke

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I never have advice for texting except just don't unless you are only trying to set a date. You really can gauge what's going on with a women over text... Jesus Christ.... face to face women are hard to read, much less deciphering text. Ask a woman out, how she responds will tell you EVERYHING you need to know about how she feels about you.
 

GoodOne123

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She's texted me how she's going to bang me and that she misses me yesterday. So, I'm probbaly just reading too much into it (oneitis, AFC **** because its been a while) We have a date planned for Tuesday. My text game is not as strong as my in person game, so I think my strategy here would be just to ignore it, contact her on tuesday to make sure i'm not gonna get flaked on & proceed.
Great that's perfect. You are probably just a bit nervous since you're back in the dating game after a long time. Don't need to put too much pressure on yourself, it's just girl numero uno, and it might work out and it might not. I guess all you have to do on Tuesday is just be relaxed, have good conversation, have rapport, and take her home if she's feeling it.
 

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just have fun with it and youll be alright and i dont mean where you have fun for her approval either. Just go and do/say things that are fun to you and you wont feel any pressure at all
 
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