"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I'm walking down the hallway, when I see a group of three freshman girls (I'm a senior). Girl A, B, and C.

Girl A and B have both been interested in me, especially B. Girl C, I don't know really, but I've spoken to her, and she seemed interested. Anyway, I have no interest in any of the three.

I pass the group, and girl B says "I used to like ARrocket" in a really loud voice (who knows why...they are just kids after all, 14 and 15 probably). Without thinking, I reply "I know" and keep walking. I get a good distance away, when Girl A (who has always been a bit b*tchy) yells out "Why are you so conceited? You're FVCKING UGLY!!"

Since I was already a good distance away, I pretended I didn't hear her. But what if I had still been standing there? What's a good response to something like this? I don't want to be petty and insult her back, but I don't want to just stand there and take it either. ASSUMING THAT THESE WERE GIRLS I AM INTERESTED IN, what would be a good DJ response to this situation?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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That was very disrespectful on her part. They like you but you showed them they have no chance which made them mad. Most girls wouldn't react this way but for some reason these freshmen think they are the sh!t and you told them otherwise by not liking them.

Go to hell you stupidazz cvnt would have been a nice reply.
Just anything insulting. Stay away from calling her a b!tch or slut becasue for some reason I get the feeling some girls like being called that. They like being called a b!tch because it makes them feel badazz and slut just isnt very insulting to many high school girls.
 

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john paul said:
That was very disrespectful on her part. They like you but you showed them they have no chance which made them mad. Most girls wouldn't react this way but for some reason these freshmen think they are the sh!t and you told them otherwise by not liking them.

Go to hell you stupidazz cvnt would have been a nice reply.
Just anything insulting. Stay away from calling her a b!tch or slut becasue for some reason I get the feeling some girls like being called that. They like being called a b!tch because it makes them feel badazz and slut just isnt very insulting to many high school girls.
Yeah, she's a rude one, but the other two are really nice...by me insulting her, wouldn't that lower me in the eyes of the other two? Seeing how they are really close friends and all...

I know I am not interested in any of them, but what if I was?
 

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If you were interested in any of them. I'd say cut your losses. I'm sure they all have that same attitude. These HS girls run in packs like wild dogs. I would have looked back and said "yeah and you're a dumb cvnt" and walked away.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ARrocket said:
Yeah, she's a rude one, but the other two are really nice...by me insulting her, wouldn't that lower me in the eyes of the other two? Seeing how they are really close friends and all...

I know I am not interested in any of them, but what if I was?

Nah it would show your not going to put up with that. You were far enough away to pretend you didn't hear but what if you had been right infront of them? Not saying anything back would make you look spineless.

Its just highschool, not the real world, so you can pretty much be jerk and not worry about it coming back to bite you in the azz.


But all this shouldn't matter becuase they mean nothing to you and your a senior, you got like 3 more weeks
 

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john paul said:
Nah it would show your not going to put up with that. You were far enough away to pretend you didn't hear but what if you had been right infront of them? Not saying anything back would make you look spineless.

Its just highschool, not the real world, so you can pretty much be jerk and not worry about it coming back to bite you in the azz.


But all this shouldn't matter becuase they mean nothing to you and your a senior, you got like 3 more weeks
True...oh yes, now I am super excited :D
 

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Her: "Why are you so conceited (big word for a freshmen, g'damn)? You're FVCKING UGLY!!"
ARrocket: "Not compared to when I'm standing next to you."

Oh man, ur already 18.
 

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Considering you are eighteen and a senior i think you should consider dating or showing interest in girls who are near your own age or at least girls that you are on the same physiological plane with. I think the majority of the forum would agree that it is bordering on pathetic that you even associate yourself with freshman with sexual undertones, go reassess you goals and ambitions with woman and then think about what you posted here.
 

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Tekniq said:
Considering you are eighteen and a senior i think you should consider dating or showing interest in girls who are near your own age or at least girls that you are on the same physiological plane with. I think the majority of the forum would agree that it is bordering on pathetic that you even associate yourself with freshman with sexual undertones, go reassess you goals and ambitions with woman and then think about what you posted here.
Obviously, you didn't read the OP

I'm NOT the slightest bit interested in ANY of them....I'm just wondering what I good response would be IF this happened with a group of girls I WAS interested in. Obviously, I would not be interested in the b*itchy one, but when there is a group like that...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ARrocket said:
Obviously, you didn't read the OP

I'm NOT the slightest bit interested in ANY of them....I'm just wondering what I good response would be IF this happened with a group of girls I WAS interested in. Obviously, I would not be interested in the b*itchy one, but when there is a group like that...
If you are not interested then why all the fuss?
Then again hindsight is 20/20.
 

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Tekniq said:
If you are not interested then why all the fuss?
Then again hindsight is 20/20.
I'm was just wondering how something like this can be handled in the future if I am interested in one of the girls...
 

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ARrocket said:
I'm was just wondering how something like this can be handled in the future if I am interested in one of the girls...
Put them in their place and make them understand that they have no right to even think about disrespecting you. But what you did is perfectly acceptable as well because she now knows that she doesn't affect you and you are free of all attachment to her despite her wanting you to at least give her some kind of response.
 

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No no no don't mouth off at them. Act cool and calm and never show that you can't handle your emotions. When you show your dominance it has to be cool and smooth.

"OMG your so fcking ugly!"
"Your kidding yourself girl"
"That's not what your mum said" :p
"I guess your friend didn't think so"

Whatever! It's not really what you say it's how you react. Stay cool.

John Paul had a gold nugger:

They like you but you showed them they have no chance which made them mad.
 

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SinJester said:
Whatever! It's not really what you say it's how you react. Stay cool.
Yes good call sinjester because i defenently failed to make that clear in my post. You dont want to get in a verbal fight when you do say something. Just a remark back to her and be done with it.

Or do what sinjester said^^ which i didnt even think about. I can see this advice he gave working really well.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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