"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I'm walking down the hallway, when I see a group of three freshman girls (I'm a senior). Girl A, B, and C.

Girl A and B have both been interested in me, especially B. Girl C, I don't know really, but I've spoken to her, and she seemed interested. Anyway, I have no interest in any of the three.

I pass the group, and girl B says "I used to like ARrocket" in a really loud voice (who knows why...they are just kids after all, 14 and 15 probably). Without thinking, I reply "I know" and keep walking. I get a good distance away, when Girl A (who has always been a bit b*tchy) yells out "Why are you so conceited? You're FVCKING UGLY!!"

Since I was already a good distance away, I pretended I didn't hear her. But what if I had still been standing there? What's a good response to something like this? I don't want to be petty and insult her back, but I don't want to just stand there and take it either. ASSUMING THAT THESE WERE GIRLS I AM INTERESTED IN, what would be a good DJ response to this situation?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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That was very disrespectful on her part. They like you but you showed them they have no chance which made them mad. Most girls wouldn't react this way but for some reason these freshmen think they are the sh!t and you told them otherwise by not liking them.

Go to hell you stupidazz cvnt would have been a nice reply.
Just anything insulting. Stay away from calling her a b!tch or slut becasue for some reason I get the feeling some girls like being called that. They like being called a b!tch because it makes them feel badazz and slut just isnt very insulting to many high school girls.
 

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john paul said:
That was very disrespectful on her part. They like you but you showed them they have no chance which made them mad. Most girls wouldn't react this way but for some reason these freshmen think they are the sh!t and you told them otherwise by not liking them.

Go to hell you stupidazz cvnt would have been a nice reply.
Just anything insulting. Stay away from calling her a b!tch or slut becasue for some reason I get the feeling some girls like being called that. They like being called a b!tch because it makes them feel badazz and slut just isnt very insulting to many high school girls.
Yeah, she's a rude one, but the other two are really nice...by me insulting her, wouldn't that lower me in the eyes of the other two? Seeing how they are really close friends and all...

I know I am not interested in any of them, but what if I was?
 

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If you were interested in any of them. I'd say cut your losses. I'm sure they all have that same attitude. These HS girls run in packs like wild dogs. I would have looked back and said "yeah and you're a dumb cvnt" and walked away.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ARrocket said:
Yeah, she's a rude one, but the other two are really nice...by me insulting her, wouldn't that lower me in the eyes of the other two? Seeing how they are really close friends and all...

I know I am not interested in any of them, but what if I was?

Nah it would show your not going to put up with that. You were far enough away to pretend you didn't hear but what if you had been right infront of them? Not saying anything back would make you look spineless.

Its just highschool, not the real world, so you can pretty much be jerk and not worry about it coming back to bite you in the azz.


But all this shouldn't matter becuase they mean nothing to you and your a senior, you got like 3 more weeks
 

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john paul said:
Nah it would show your not going to put up with that. You were far enough away to pretend you didn't hear but what if you had been right infront of them? Not saying anything back would make you look spineless.

Its just highschool, not the real world, so you can pretty much be jerk and not worry about it coming back to bite you in the azz.


But all this shouldn't matter becuase they mean nothing to you and your a senior, you got like 3 more weeks
True...oh yes, now I am super excited :D
 

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Her: "Why are you so conceited (big word for a freshmen, g'damn)? You're FVCKING UGLY!!"
ARrocket: "Not compared to when I'm standing next to you."

Oh man, ur already 18.
 

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Considering you are eighteen and a senior i think you should consider dating or showing interest in girls who are near your own age or at least girls that you are on the same physiological plane with. I think the majority of the forum would agree that it is bordering on pathetic that you even associate yourself with freshman with sexual undertones, go reassess you goals and ambitions with woman and then think about what you posted here.
 

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Tekniq said:
Considering you are eighteen and a senior i think you should consider dating or showing interest in girls who are near your own age or at least girls that you are on the same physiological plane with. I think the majority of the forum would agree that it is bordering on pathetic that you even associate yourself with freshman with sexual undertones, go reassess you goals and ambitions with woman and then think about what you posted here.
Obviously, you didn't read the OP

I'm NOT the slightest bit interested in ANY of them....I'm just wondering what I good response would be IF this happened with a group of girls I WAS interested in. Obviously, I would not be interested in the b*itchy one, but when there is a group like that...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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ARrocket said:
Obviously, you didn't read the OP

I'm NOT the slightest bit interested in ANY of them....I'm just wondering what I good response would be IF this happened with a group of girls I WAS interested in. Obviously, I would not be interested in the b*itchy one, but when there is a group like that...
If you are not interested then why all the fuss?
Then again hindsight is 20/20.
 

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Tekniq said:
If you are not interested then why all the fuss?
Then again hindsight is 20/20.
I'm was just wondering how something like this can be handled in the future if I am interested in one of the girls...
 

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ARrocket said:
I'm was just wondering how something like this can be handled in the future if I am interested in one of the girls...
Put them in their place and make them understand that they have no right to even think about disrespecting you. But what you did is perfectly acceptable as well because she now knows that she doesn't affect you and you are free of all attachment to her despite her wanting you to at least give her some kind of response.
 

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No no no don't mouth off at them. Act cool and calm and never show that you can't handle your emotions. When you show your dominance it has to be cool and smooth.

"OMG your so fcking ugly!"
"Your kidding yourself girl"
"That's not what your mum said" :p
"I guess your friend didn't think so"

Whatever! It's not really what you say it's how you react. Stay cool.

John Paul had a gold nugger:

They like you but you showed them they have no chance which made them mad.
 

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SinJester said:
Whatever! It's not really what you say it's how you react. Stay cool.
Yes good call sinjester because i defenently failed to make that clear in my post. You dont want to get in a verbal fight when you do say something. Just a remark back to her and be done with it.

Or do what sinjester said^^ which i didnt even think about. I can see this advice he gave working really well.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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