"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'm walking down the hallway, when I see a group of three freshman girls (I'm a senior). Girl A, B, and C.

Girl A and B have both been interested in me, especially B. Girl C, I don't know really, but I've spoken to her, and she seemed interested. Anyway, I have no interest in any of the three.

I pass the group, and girl B says "I used to like ARrocket" in a really loud voice (who knows why...they are just kids after all, 14 and 15 probably). Without thinking, I reply "I know" and keep walking. I get a good distance away, when Girl A (who has always been a bit b*tchy) yells out "Why are you so conceited? You're FVCKING UGLY!!"

Since I was already a good distance away, I pretended I didn't hear her. But what if I had still been standing there? What's a good response to something like this? I don't want to be petty and insult her back, but I don't want to just stand there and take it either. ASSUMING THAT THESE WERE GIRLS I AM INTERESTED IN, what would be a good DJ response to this situation?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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That was very disrespectful on her part. They like you but you showed them they have no chance which made them mad. Most girls wouldn't react this way but for some reason these freshmen think they are the sh!t and you told them otherwise by not liking them.

Go to hell you stupidazz cvnt would have been a nice reply.
Just anything insulting. Stay away from calling her a b!tch or slut becasue for some reason I get the feeling some girls like being called that. They like being called a b!tch because it makes them feel badazz and slut just isnt very insulting to many high school girls.
 

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john paul said:
That was very disrespectful on her part. They like you but you showed them they have no chance which made them mad. Most girls wouldn't react this way but for some reason these freshmen think they are the sh!t and you told them otherwise by not liking them.

Go to hell you stupidazz cvnt would have been a nice reply.
Just anything insulting. Stay away from calling her a b!tch or slut becasue for some reason I get the feeling some girls like being called that. They like being called a b!tch because it makes them feel badazz and slut just isnt very insulting to many high school girls.
Yeah, she's a rude one, but the other two are really nice...by me insulting her, wouldn't that lower me in the eyes of the other two? Seeing how they are really close friends and all...

I know I am not interested in any of them, but what if I was?
 

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If you were interested in any of them. I'd say cut your losses. I'm sure they all have that same attitude. These HS girls run in packs like wild dogs. I would have looked back and said "yeah and you're a dumb cvnt" and walked away.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ARrocket said:
Yeah, she's a rude one, but the other two are really nice...by me insulting her, wouldn't that lower me in the eyes of the other two? Seeing how they are really close friends and all...

I know I am not interested in any of them, but what if I was?

Nah it would show your not going to put up with that. You were far enough away to pretend you didn't hear but what if you had been right infront of them? Not saying anything back would make you look spineless.

Its just highschool, not the real world, so you can pretty much be jerk and not worry about it coming back to bite you in the azz.


But all this shouldn't matter becuase they mean nothing to you and your a senior, you got like 3 more weeks
 

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john paul said:
Nah it would show your not going to put up with that. You were far enough away to pretend you didn't hear but what if you had been right infront of them? Not saying anything back would make you look spineless.

Its just highschool, not the real world, so you can pretty much be jerk and not worry about it coming back to bite you in the azz.


But all this shouldn't matter becuase they mean nothing to you and your a senior, you got like 3 more weeks
True...oh yes, now I am super excited :D
 

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Her: "Why are you so conceited (big word for a freshmen, g'damn)? You're FVCKING UGLY!!"
ARrocket: "Not compared to when I'm standing next to you."

Oh man, ur already 18.
 

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Considering you are eighteen and a senior i think you should consider dating or showing interest in girls who are near your own age or at least girls that you are on the same physiological plane with. I think the majority of the forum would agree that it is bordering on pathetic that you even associate yourself with freshman with sexual undertones, go reassess you goals and ambitions with woman and then think about what you posted here.
 

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Tekniq said:
Considering you are eighteen and a senior i think you should consider dating or showing interest in girls who are near your own age or at least girls that you are on the same physiological plane with. I think the majority of the forum would agree that it is bordering on pathetic that you even associate yourself with freshman with sexual undertones, go reassess you goals and ambitions with woman and then think about what you posted here.
Obviously, you didn't read the OP

I'm NOT the slightest bit interested in ANY of them....I'm just wondering what I good response would be IF this happened with a group of girls I WAS interested in. Obviously, I would not be interested in the b*itchy one, but when there is a group like that...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ARrocket said:
Obviously, you didn't read the OP

I'm NOT the slightest bit interested in ANY of them....I'm just wondering what I good response would be IF this happened with a group of girls I WAS interested in. Obviously, I would not be interested in the b*itchy one, but when there is a group like that...
If you are not interested then why all the fuss?
Then again hindsight is 20/20.
 

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Tekniq said:
If you are not interested then why all the fuss?
Then again hindsight is 20/20.
I'm was just wondering how something like this can be handled in the future if I am interested in one of the girls...
 

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ARrocket said:
I'm was just wondering how something like this can be handled in the future if I am interested in one of the girls...
Put them in their place and make them understand that they have no right to even think about disrespecting you. But what you did is perfectly acceptable as well because she now knows that she doesn't affect you and you are free of all attachment to her despite her wanting you to at least give her some kind of response.
 

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No no no don't mouth off at them. Act cool and calm and never show that you can't handle your emotions. When you show your dominance it has to be cool and smooth.

"OMG your so fcking ugly!"
"Your kidding yourself girl"
"That's not what your mum said" :p
"I guess your friend didn't think so"

Whatever! It's not really what you say it's how you react. Stay cool.

John Paul had a gold nugger:

They like you but you showed them they have no chance which made them mad.
 

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SinJester said:
Whatever! It's not really what you say it's how you react. Stay cool.
Yes good call sinjester because i defenently failed to make that clear in my post. You dont want to get in a verbal fight when you do say something. Just a remark back to her and be done with it.

Or do what sinjester said^^ which i didnt even think about. I can see this advice he gave working really well.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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