"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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A revolution

Oni

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Is it just me, or does it seem that in most areas, girls are just preferring online chatting over phone calls. And they have these so called online journals like "myspace" and "xanga" so that to find out about whats going on with them you have to read their rants online. Wouldn't you guys agree?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Gonzalo

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I know, it's ridiculous. The whole online journal combines the idea of having a personal journal with a mechanism that feeds attention to these girls. Just look at how many dorks reply to every single thing these girls write, "Man, that's so deep", "I like the new pic", "you're a beautiful person". Boils down to guys with too much spare time feeding attention to girls who think they're deep.

Ant the whole online chat thing, I know some guys here swear by it, by I still would rather hear the voice inflexion of someone whenever I actually care to know how they feel about something.
 

Oni

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Yes i agree. It just seemed to me that nowadays it's damn near difficult to get a girl to talk with you on the phone but they will "chat" with you online instead.
 
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