"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Oni

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Is it just me, or does it seem that in most areas, girls are just preferring online chatting over phone calls. And they have these so called online journals like "myspace" and "xanga" so that to find out about whats going on with them you have to read their rants online. Wouldn't you guys agree?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Gonzalo

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I know, it's ridiculous. The whole online journal combines the idea of having a personal journal with a mechanism that feeds attention to these girls. Just look at how many dorks reply to every single thing these girls write, "Man, that's so deep", "I like the new pic", "you're a beautiful person". Boils down to guys with too much spare time feeding attention to girls who think they're deep.

Ant the whole online chat thing, I know some guys here swear by it, by I still would rather hear the voice inflexion of someone whenever I actually care to know how they feel about something.
 

Oni

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Yes i agree. It just seemed to me that nowadays it's damn near difficult to get a girl to talk with you on the phone but they will "chat" with you online instead.
 
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