Jeffst1980
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
A Reminder that Game STILL isn't Mainstream
- Thread starter Jeffst1980
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Dear Jeff,
Yeah....I think it will work on a Quiet young girl....Frankly I will come at the Flowers,a thoughtful Card,but big eats at a Swank Restaurant....Nuh cheaper to buy it,you are anyway.
Yeah....I think it will work on a Quiet young girl....Frankly I will come at the Flowers,a thoughtful Card,but big eats at a Swank Restaurant....Nuh cheaper to buy it,you are anyway.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
typical
Master Don Juan
Well of course it isn't mainstream bullsh!t like this is being thrown at guys constantly.
Example.
Last month a fellow workmate chatted up a Jim Beam promo girl at work, she was young so half of his mistakes got overlooked. He pulled her number and worked out she was vegetarian just like him. Instead of asking me or our other mates at work on how to get the girl to go out with him he decides to ask the old ladies that work with us.
They tell him to text her and say that he'll make her a nice vegetarian dish next week that they can both enjoy at lunch time if shes free to have lunch with him. As soon as he texted her that rubbish and other crap she stopped texting back and avoided him like the plague at work.
After a week he comes to the boys at work and explains what happened and he still doesn't believe what we are trying to tell him.
Example.
Last month a fellow workmate chatted up a Jim Beam promo girl at work, she was young so half of his mistakes got overlooked. He pulled her number and worked out she was vegetarian just like him. Instead of asking me or our other mates at work on how to get the girl to go out with him he decides to ask the old ladies that work with us.
They tell him to text her and say that he'll make her a nice vegetarian dish next week that they can both enjoy at lunch time if shes free to have lunch with him. As soon as he texted her that rubbish and other crap she stopped texting back and avoided him like the plague at work.
After a week he comes to the boys at work and explains what happened and he still doesn't believe what we are trying to tell him.
If you take the 5 headings and rewrite the content below them, they're perfect.
First-date dictate #1: Dress with finesse
Dressing sharp is a must, say no more.
First-date dictate #2: Perfect the proper greeting
By proper, I mean a properly tight, well timed and well executed neg. E.g: the Roissy classic picking lint / hair (real or imaginary) from her dress (around the shoulders or back) as you see her, without saying a word. Timeless & priceless maneuver.
First-date dictate #3: Charm her with a bit of classic etiquette
... to balance out your previous neg. Keep her hamster guessing.
First-date dictate #4: Order with panache
Who can argue with this? You're the man with good taste, you order, she submits.
First-date dictate #5: Bid her goodnight in grand style
Say "goodnight" after you give her a grand romp she'll remember for decades. It'd be rude to bolt out of the door without a word.
First-date dictate #1: Dress with finesse
Dressing sharp is a must, say no more.
First-date dictate #2: Perfect the proper greeting
By proper, I mean a properly tight, well timed and well executed neg. E.g: the Roissy classic picking lint / hair (real or imaginary) from her dress (around the shoulders or back) as you see her, without saying a word. Timeless & priceless maneuver.
First-date dictate #3: Charm her with a bit of classic etiquette
... to balance out your previous neg. Keep her hamster guessing.
First-date dictate #4: Order with panache
Who can argue with this? You're the man with good taste, you order, she submits.
First-date dictate #5: Bid her goodnight in grand style
Say "goodnight" after you give her a grand romp she'll remember for decades. It'd be rude to bolt out of the door without a word.
Pimp-sicle
Master Don Juan
I knew it would be horrible, but I got a real kick out of "stand when she leaves the table." LOLLLLLLL
PIMP
PIMP
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
scrouds
Master Don Juan
Only give a woman flowers if you picked them from her front yard. A root ball only adds to the beauty of a flower.
Desdinova
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The most effective way I've ever given a woman a flower is when I jumped out of the car, ran to the boulevard, and ripped one out of the city planters. Spending money on flowers is great thing to do for someone in the hospital.