Jeffst1980
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"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
A Reminder that Game STILL isn't Mainstream
- Thread starter Jeffst1980
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Dear Jeff,
Yeah....I think it will work on a Quiet young girl....Frankly I will come at the Flowers,a thoughtful Card,but big eats at a Swank Restaurant....Nuh cheaper to buy it,you are anyway.
Yeah....I think it will work on a Quiet young girl....Frankly I will come at the Flowers,a thoughtful Card,but big eats at a Swank Restaurant....Nuh cheaper to buy it,you are anyway.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
typical
Master Don Juan
Well of course it isn't mainstream bullsh!t like this is being thrown at guys constantly.
Example.
Last month a fellow workmate chatted up a Jim Beam promo girl at work, she was young so half of his mistakes got overlooked. He pulled her number and worked out she was vegetarian just like him. Instead of asking me or our other mates at work on how to get the girl to go out with him he decides to ask the old ladies that work with us.
They tell him to text her and say that he'll make her a nice vegetarian dish next week that they can both enjoy at lunch time if shes free to have lunch with him. As soon as he texted her that rubbish and other crap she stopped texting back and avoided him like the plague at work.
After a week he comes to the boys at work and explains what happened and he still doesn't believe what we are trying to tell him.
Example.
Last month a fellow workmate chatted up a Jim Beam promo girl at work, she was young so half of his mistakes got overlooked. He pulled her number and worked out she was vegetarian just like him. Instead of asking me or our other mates at work on how to get the girl to go out with him he decides to ask the old ladies that work with us.
They tell him to text her and say that he'll make her a nice vegetarian dish next week that they can both enjoy at lunch time if shes free to have lunch with him. As soon as he texted her that rubbish and other crap she stopped texting back and avoided him like the plague at work.
After a week he comes to the boys at work and explains what happened and he still doesn't believe what we are trying to tell him.
If you take the 5 headings and rewrite the content below them, they're perfect.
First-date dictate #1: Dress with finesse
Dressing sharp is a must, say no more.
First-date dictate #2: Perfect the proper greeting
By proper, I mean a properly tight, well timed and well executed neg. E.g: the Roissy classic picking lint / hair (real or imaginary) from her dress (around the shoulders or back) as you see her, without saying a word. Timeless & priceless maneuver.
First-date dictate #3: Charm her with a bit of classic etiquette
... to balance out your previous neg. Keep her hamster guessing.
First-date dictate #4: Order with panache
Who can argue with this? You're the man with good taste, you order, she submits.
First-date dictate #5: Bid her goodnight in grand style
Say "goodnight" after you give her a grand romp she'll remember for decades. It'd be rude to bolt out of the door without a word.
First-date dictate #1: Dress with finesse
Dressing sharp is a must, say no more.
First-date dictate #2: Perfect the proper greeting
By proper, I mean a properly tight, well timed and well executed neg. E.g: the Roissy classic picking lint / hair (real or imaginary) from her dress (around the shoulders or back) as you see her, without saying a word. Timeless & priceless maneuver.
First-date dictate #3: Charm her with a bit of classic etiquette
... to balance out your previous neg. Keep her hamster guessing.
First-date dictate #4: Order with panache
Who can argue with this? You're the man with good taste, you order, she submits.
First-date dictate #5: Bid her goodnight in grand style
Say "goodnight" after you give her a grand romp she'll remember for decades. It'd be rude to bolt out of the door without a word.
Pimp-sicle
Master Don Juan
I knew it would be horrible, but I got a real kick out of "stand when she leaves the table." LOLLLLLLL
PIMP
PIMP
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
scrouds
Master Don Juan
Only give a woman flowers if you picked them from her front yard. A root ball only adds to the beauty of a flower.
Desdinova
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The most effective way I've ever given a woman a flower is when I jumped out of the car, ran to the boulevard, and ripped one out of the city planters. Spending money on flowers is great thing to do for someone in the hospital.