Jeffst1980
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
A Reminder that Game STILL isn't Mainstream
- Thread starter Jeffst1980
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Dear Jeff,
Yeah....I think it will work on a Quiet young girl....Frankly I will come at the Flowers,a thoughtful Card,but big eats at a Swank Restaurant....Nuh cheaper to buy it,you are anyway.
Yeah....I think it will work on a Quiet young girl....Frankly I will come at the Flowers,a thoughtful Card,but big eats at a Swank Restaurant....Nuh cheaper to buy it,you are anyway.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
typical
Master Don Juan
Well of course it isn't mainstream bullsh!t like this is being thrown at guys constantly.
Example.
Last month a fellow workmate chatted up a Jim Beam promo girl at work, she was young so half of his mistakes got overlooked. He pulled her number and worked out she was vegetarian just like him. Instead of asking me or our other mates at work on how to get the girl to go out with him he decides to ask the old ladies that work with us.
They tell him to text her and say that he'll make her a nice vegetarian dish next week that they can both enjoy at lunch time if shes free to have lunch with him. As soon as he texted her that rubbish and other crap she stopped texting back and avoided him like the plague at work.
After a week he comes to the boys at work and explains what happened and he still doesn't believe what we are trying to tell him.
Example.
Last month a fellow workmate chatted up a Jim Beam promo girl at work, she was young so half of his mistakes got overlooked. He pulled her number and worked out she was vegetarian just like him. Instead of asking me or our other mates at work on how to get the girl to go out with him he decides to ask the old ladies that work with us.
They tell him to text her and say that he'll make her a nice vegetarian dish next week that they can both enjoy at lunch time if shes free to have lunch with him. As soon as he texted her that rubbish and other crap she stopped texting back and avoided him like the plague at work.
After a week he comes to the boys at work and explains what happened and he still doesn't believe what we are trying to tell him.
If you take the 5 headings and rewrite the content below them, they're perfect.
First-date dictate #1: Dress with finesse
Dressing sharp is a must, say no more.
First-date dictate #2: Perfect the proper greeting
By proper, I mean a properly tight, well timed and well executed neg. E.g: the Roissy classic picking lint / hair (real or imaginary) from her dress (around the shoulders or back) as you see her, without saying a word. Timeless & priceless maneuver.
First-date dictate #3: Charm her with a bit of classic etiquette
... to balance out your previous neg. Keep her hamster guessing.
First-date dictate #4: Order with panache
Who can argue with this? You're the man with good taste, you order, she submits.
First-date dictate #5: Bid her goodnight in grand style
Say "goodnight" after you give her a grand romp she'll remember for decades. It'd be rude to bolt out of the door without a word.
First-date dictate #1: Dress with finesse
Dressing sharp is a must, say no more.
First-date dictate #2: Perfect the proper greeting
By proper, I mean a properly tight, well timed and well executed neg. E.g: the Roissy classic picking lint / hair (real or imaginary) from her dress (around the shoulders or back) as you see her, without saying a word. Timeless & priceless maneuver.
First-date dictate #3: Charm her with a bit of classic etiquette
... to balance out your previous neg. Keep her hamster guessing.
First-date dictate #4: Order with panache
Who can argue with this? You're the man with good taste, you order, she submits.
First-date dictate #5: Bid her goodnight in grand style
Say "goodnight" after you give her a grand romp she'll remember for decades. It'd be rude to bolt out of the door without a word.
Pimp-sicle
Master Don Juan
I knew it would be horrible, but I got a real kick out of "stand when she leaves the table." LOLLLLLLL
PIMP
PIMP
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
scrouds
Master Don Juan
Only give a woman flowers if you picked them from her front yard. A root ball only adds to the beauty of a flower.
Desdinova
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The most effective way I've ever given a woman a flower is when I jumped out of the car, ran to the boulevard, and ripped one out of the city planters. Spending money on flowers is great thing to do for someone in the hospital.