"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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a quick tip for those insecure with there looks

quest

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hi guys.

i have a tip for everyone who is a little self concious about there looks (much like i am).

if you pick up a girl (no matter how good looking) and get her number don't let her looks scare you, don't feel as though she is out of your league. because once you have picked her up you've proven that she is attracted to you and from that point looks matter less and less and your personality and the way you play the game will determine your success with this girl.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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if you pick up a girl (no matter how good looking) and get her number don't let her looks scare you, don't feel as though she is out of your league. because once you have picked her up you've proven that she is attracted to you and from that point looks matter less and less and your personality and the way you play the game will determine your success with this girl.
Wrong.

That's what you should be thinking before you even approach her!

Mav
 

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true. you should be thinking that.
but in the past i found that i let great girls go because i put them on a pedastool. i was thinking, how can like me? they are much better looking.

now, getting a kiss and some digits is quite easy (i find) but then continuing to see them i have always found was quite difficult because i would turn AFC. after finding this site i've seen the errors of my ways and this is something important which i have realised. and if your not good looking but have a good looking chick, my point is. DON'T feel as though she is too good, because you WILL lose her. you must realise that she is interested in you, so game on like you would an average chick.
 

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You're always more critical of yourself than other people are. The other day a girl I had just met told me she really likes my teeth. Now, I don't think my teeth are bad, but they aren't dazzling or my best aspect. It certainly changed my outlook.
 

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girls give out all the time, it means nothing. You can start thinking that after you've been on a date or two with her.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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