"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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a quick tip for those insecure with there looks

quest

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hi guys.

i have a tip for everyone who is a little self concious about there looks (much like i am).

if you pick up a girl (no matter how good looking) and get her number don't let her looks scare you, don't feel as though she is out of your league. because once you have picked her up you've proven that she is attracted to you and from that point looks matter less and less and your personality and the way you play the game will determine your success with this girl.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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if you pick up a girl (no matter how good looking) and get her number don't let her looks scare you, don't feel as though she is out of your league. because once you have picked her up you've proven that she is attracted to you and from that point looks matter less and less and your personality and the way you play the game will determine your success with this girl.
Wrong.

That's what you should be thinking before you even approach her!

Mav
 

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true. you should be thinking that.
but in the past i found that i let great girls go because i put them on a pedastool. i was thinking, how can like me? they are much better looking.

now, getting a kiss and some digits is quite easy (i find) but then continuing to see them i have always found was quite difficult because i would turn AFC. after finding this site i've seen the errors of my ways and this is something important which i have realised. and if your not good looking but have a good looking chick, my point is. DON'T feel as though she is too good, because you WILL lose her. you must realise that she is interested in you, so game on like you would an average chick.
 

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You're always more critical of yourself than other people are. The other day a girl I had just met told me she really likes my teeth. Now, I don't think my teeth are bad, but they aren't dazzling or my best aspect. It certainly changed my outlook.
 

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girls give out all the time, it means nothing. You can start thinking that after you've been on a date or two with her.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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