"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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A quick thought on looks

JdelaSilviera

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This is just because of a recent thread of a guy who has to deal with average looks.

You don´t need to have game or looks to get laid.... you only need to be an average guy. An average guy can fvck average girls... So don´t tell me you are lonely because of your looks.

Oh and probably you are like me before, whenever the word women came into my mind, pictures of the hottest blondes would be there as if the women team was composed with only these charming creatures.

THE truth: most of the women team is composed by A BUNCH of FATTIES with many holes because of their celullite.... If you go around the street with 3 or 4 women, you are most likely to look an instructor of a camp for fat kids...

I don´t care if you are balding or getting fat, women are also getting celullite and wrinkles everyday. Most women look average (even ugly without makeup)... So don´t tell me you can´t get those average women because of your looks...

If you are trying those who are way out of your league it´s another story... just try to improve yourself
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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...often the ugly and average girls put a ton of makeap on their faces, they put on tightfitting clothes ...and they walk with their head high and with an arrogant look thinking they are soooo hot now.

in the end they end up fvcked by some jerk at the friday-night party ...but in the rest of the week they are just unhappy and without friends. ...girls are so dumb.
 

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^^ That's because they are tying to usurp and not earn.

I have had the same thoughts recently.
 

Just a Shot Away

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Captain said:
Yeah, looks aren't REQUIRED but they do HELP, they can give you an edge, get your foot in the door. < That sentence literally sums up the effect of looks.
Eh, sort of. It would be much more accurate to say something to the effect of:

"Looks aren't required, and can help or hurt you depending on your personality and the type of girl...which basically means that it's a completely worthless topic."

I mean it's all right there in the DJ Bible. Looks are brought up in the first few pages and he lets you know that you don't need to be good-looking to bang the hotties. A quick glance at the couples walking down the street will reaffirm this. Also, the OP is on the right track but he's trying to limit average-looking guys to average-looking girls. Average-looking guys don't have to settle for average-looking girls, and this kind of thinking inside the box that doesn't help anyone. I'll be restating this fact once this thread hits page 9 or 10 or so.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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