"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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A quick thought on looks

JdelaSilviera

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This is just because of a recent thread of a guy who has to deal with average looks.

You don´t need to have game or looks to get laid.... you only need to be an average guy. An average guy can fvck average girls... So don´t tell me you are lonely because of your looks.

Oh and probably you are like me before, whenever the word women came into my mind, pictures of the hottest blondes would be there as if the women team was composed with only these charming creatures.

THE truth: most of the women team is composed by A BUNCH of FATTIES with many holes because of their celullite.... If you go around the street with 3 or 4 women, you are most likely to look an instructor of a camp for fat kids...

I don´t care if you are balding or getting fat, women are also getting celullite and wrinkles everyday. Most women look average (even ugly without makeup)... So don´t tell me you can´t get those average women because of your looks...

If you are trying those who are way out of your league it´s another story... just try to improve yourself
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Alien

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...often the ugly and average girls put a ton of makeap on their faces, they put on tightfitting clothes ...and they walk with their head high and with an arrogant look thinking they are soooo hot now.

in the end they end up fvcked by some jerk at the friday-night party ...but in the rest of the week they are just unhappy and without friends. ...girls are so dumb.
 

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^^ That's because they are tying to usurp and not earn.

I have had the same thoughts recently.
 

Just a Shot Away

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Captain said:
Yeah, looks aren't REQUIRED but they do HELP, they can give you an edge, get your foot in the door. < That sentence literally sums up the effect of looks.
Eh, sort of. It would be much more accurate to say something to the effect of:

"Looks aren't required, and can help or hurt you depending on your personality and the type of girl...which basically means that it's a completely worthless topic."

I mean it's all right there in the DJ Bible. Looks are brought up in the first few pages and he lets you know that you don't need to be good-looking to bang the hotties. A quick glance at the couples walking down the street will reaffirm this. Also, the OP is on the right track but he's trying to limit average-looking guys to average-looking girls. Average-looking guys don't have to settle for average-looking girls, and this kind of thinking inside the box that doesn't help anyone. I'll be restating this fact once this thread hits page 9 or 10 or so.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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