"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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A quick thought on looks

JdelaSilviera

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This is just because of a recent thread of a guy who has to deal with average looks.

You don´t need to have game or looks to get laid.... you only need to be an average guy. An average guy can fvck average girls... So don´t tell me you are lonely because of your looks.

Oh and probably you are like me before, whenever the word women came into my mind, pictures of the hottest blondes would be there as if the women team was composed with only these charming creatures.

THE truth: most of the women team is composed by A BUNCH of FATTIES with many holes because of their celullite.... If you go around the street with 3 or 4 women, you are most likely to look an instructor of a camp for fat kids...

I don´t care if you are balding or getting fat, women are also getting celullite and wrinkles everyday. Most women look average (even ugly without makeup)... So don´t tell me you can´t get those average women because of your looks...

If you are trying those who are way out of your league it´s another story... just try to improve yourself
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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...often the ugly and average girls put a ton of makeap on their faces, they put on tightfitting clothes ...and they walk with their head high and with an arrogant look thinking they are soooo hot now.

in the end they end up fvcked by some jerk at the friday-night party ...but in the rest of the week they are just unhappy and without friends. ...girls are so dumb.
 

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^^ That's because they are tying to usurp and not earn.

I have had the same thoughts recently.
 

Just a Shot Away

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Captain said:
Yeah, looks aren't REQUIRED but they do HELP, they can give you an edge, get your foot in the door. < That sentence literally sums up the effect of looks.
Eh, sort of. It would be much more accurate to say something to the effect of:

"Looks aren't required, and can help or hurt you depending on your personality and the type of girl...which basically means that it's a completely worthless topic."

I mean it's all right there in the DJ Bible. Looks are brought up in the first few pages and he lets you know that you don't need to be good-looking to bang the hotties. A quick glance at the couples walking down the street will reaffirm this. Also, the OP is on the right track but he's trying to limit average-looking guys to average-looking girls. Average-looking guys don't have to settle for average-looking girls, and this kind of thinking inside the box that doesn't help anyone. I'll be restating this fact once this thread hits page 9 or 10 or so.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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