"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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A quick question

Hammer79

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A woman starting talking to me when I was the grocery this past sunday and with a little luck it happened to be the type of girl I'm attracted to. So after talking to her for a bit I got the feeling from her body language that she seemed to be into me. I asked her out and she said yes but didn't have my cell phone on my to save her number or anything to write her number on and neither did she but she asked me what my last name was and that she would add me to facebook. After a few days I got no friend request but I knew some people who work at the hospital where she told me she works and one of them happened to know her name, so I added her and sent a small message asking how things are going. Well she accepted the friend request but didn't reply to my message. So would it be a sign that she's not interested since she didn't initially add me herself or reply to the message? I know I know, I'm saying to myself Billy your acting a little needy but its hardy not to get excited when you get yes from a girl your attracted to when you haven't had much luck.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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omega05

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It's like you're already counting yourself out of the race before it began. Just try to catch her on fb chat and chat with her
 

Dukester101

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You said she works at a hospital? Maybe she's busy and didnt have the time to chat or write a message?

You never know. I wouldnt rule it out just yet, but dont be too heartbroken if nothing develops. Just be willing to pick up and move on.
 

Romjuan

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ive had a similar situation and the girl kept giving me excuses not to go out. i would say she isnt interested but at this point you have nothing to lose so you might as well ask her for her phone number then ask her out over the phone.
 
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